Recent content by The tin man

I usually assume the girl is playing me and walk away. Maybe I should do the same in this case. Would anyone have played this differently?

First I did the casual ask out: Hey, I'm going out for a beer tonight at this place. She showed up with a friend. Talked, even touched my back, but finished her drink and her friend and her were off to some girl's night. Second time, I asked her out to dinner. She said she thought it would be...

We don't really work together. We work for the same college and colleges are big. I do spin plates, but I would like to get somewhere with this woman. I have heard through the grapevines that she thinks I'm a hot but considers me to be a player. I will read more of the bible.

Oh I can show strenght. :up: I'm thinking I should tap into her feminine side. Any tricks?

It's just cross cultural communication. We'll get the lingo soon! Your attack provoked a culture shock over at LS it was hilarious to see everyone trying to figure out what was going on.

All right, new here, yet another LS transplant. I am getting familiar with everything and am really feeling amongst brothers. In a nutshell, my problem is that I have game with drama queens but falter around the kind of women I am really attracted too: intelligent, strong headed...

thanks for the link Interceptor. That rang true with me. I will start a thread.

:crackup: you should have seen LS last night!

No, I feel rather free at LS, as I have earned respect and privileges there. I just want to take advantage of what both forums have to offer and feel like I will reap the most benefits by having two identities. You don't like LS and that's your perogative but don't assume you know my...

I like the fact that I can have two web identities, and get two different perspectives on my threads without one being traceable to the other. That's why I prefer not to reveal my LS identity. If it ever becomes relevant, I won't hesitate to do so.

Absolutely true, words and actions need to match, but don't always do. My thing is, I have no time to waste with women who are headcases. I like strong confident women, and that's who I date. They flake or play games? I have no time to waste on them. I hope this board will help me improve...

Ok, that makes sense. The one thing I do find interesting about LS is that women do talk about their own problems, and are usually genuine about how they feel. I have learned a lot from them and I am thankful for that. Women are no longer so mysterious to me.

I just don't see how this advice is gender specific. Women do this too and could benefit from the same advice.

I'm also a newbie from LS and I couldn't agree more. It's been interesting to follow events on both threads as they unfold. There seems to be mostly miscommunication between the sites, and a lot of backlash. Plus, while some of you expressed yourselves really well, please take the time to...

nice emoticons guys! I am a convert from LS. Help me see the light!