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The OP is right. Anything else is tantamount to saying that you should learn to drive by reading a book. Yes you need to know the highway code but the learning is in the doing. Unless you are already mature enough (and experienced enough), which in my opinion does not cover the majority of the...

Ignore them

Do whatever you want. As obvious as that seems. Except, actually do what you want. I've had situations where I don't give a sh!t if they "cheat". The lying is worse, but the amount to which you care about that really depends on you. And remember that any guy's advice here will be based on his...

You all need to grow up. Sexual gratification is complex, subjective and easily misunderstood. Perhaps this kind of thing is just ultimate control of the destructive, primitive ego. A wish to see the one that they love pleasured in a way that only variety can provide.

I'll have to agree entirely with iqqi (and I couldn't have said it better myself). I think some of you misunderstood what exactly he was trying to say. i.e I'm sure everybody means well but I seriously suggest you re-examine iqqi's point of view. That being said, if you really do...

You've got problems, though you'll probably grow out of it. ****ing hell. Back in t'day this was a place for frustrated (probably overly nice) guys to talk about relationships and hopefully help others to have success with women. You've got a serious attitude problem. You've also got...

I agree with Rescue. However it always (of course) depends on the situation.

My God, I haven't heard worse advice since I asked grandma what to do with my Adhi Karya stocks. She said "put it in a chicken soup". Are you really 33? You'd seriously "next" a girlfriend without any conversation just because she doesn't like the taste of ***? fvck sake.

Never seek to tell thy love, Love that never told can be; For the gentle wind doth move Silently, invisibly. I told my love, I told my love, I told her all my heart, Trembling, cold, in ghastly fears, Ah! she did depart! Soon after she was gone...

The best way to get people to believe in your value is to believe in it yourself. Ok. We are largely responsible for teaching others how they should treat us; Someone who'd openly disrespect one person wouldn't dream of doing the same thing to another. In this case the problem is simple, she...

Welcome back luke, you troll. True. However your system is utterly pointless. How the guy feels can and should be described in the post, not with some pointless ranking system. The 1-10 is also fairly useless as perceptions can vary, however it tends to give posters a rough estimate of...

I largely agree with Kontroller, this is one fvcked up email. Of course I don't want you to jump to conclusions, you need to factor in other examples of her behaviour and personality in order to make any real judgments about the big picture. Regardless, you cannot let this slide. Either you...

KontrollerX, I always look forward to reading your posts. Good advice as usual man. To the OP: Seriously, listen to these guys dude. It's perfect advice, even if a little hard to follow at times. Finally, don't look on this as a purely negative thing, see it as a chance to improve and work on...

Likely that is true in some cases. But on point regarding whether it should be done -specifically whether the impressionable people on this board should take the advice- is where I've aimed my comments. This is edging into the realms of philosophy; is the happy man in control of himself true...

nevermind.