Recent content by The Comeback Kid

Last week, I made this thread. It involved a girl I am interested in and a friend of mine who appeared to getting himself a little too involved. One week later, this scene has changed. First, my friend is now my #1 cheerleader. I don't know if it was Valentine's Day with his gf, if the...

It's quite simple. Your friend has no self-consciousness, which permits him to be more confident in social settings. This confidence rubs off on the people he is talking to, and thus he becomes known as a "confident person." Someone who is too self-conscious and totally cares what others...

Thanks for the replies. Definitely two camps in terms of the argument here. Analyzing everyone's posts would take a long while, but I will say that my buddies and I back home would NEVER try to steal a girl one of us were going after. We'd either help our friend or simply pursue other girls...

Just to clarify (based on the two replies so far): -I made a move. Read the post again. I'm not anywhere close to campus this weekend, but on Monday we have something set up. Also, I met her less than two weeks ago, so it's still moving rather quickly. -I also agree it was a "low blow" with...

I don't ask girls about their past. I honestly don't care. The only time I'd be concerned is if the girl had an STD or if she had an ex that was constantly stalking her or anything dangerous like that.

Interesting, but not really surprising. Having a sense of humor, having humility and having a strong frame that won't rattle when others make fun of you, is always a plus. HB7 is probably too sensitive with the ragging and therefore isn't as much fun in that regard.

At the beginning of this school year, I became very good friends with someone I work with for our extra-curricular activity. We had a class together, we have similar interests and we hang out very often. I got to know his group of friends and we all get along, everything's great. A few months...

okok I get it. I didn't think it was anything big. She did text me out of the blue a little while ago explaining why she sent the text though (fell asleep early, randomly woke up and saw it). Interesting, but as you said, really means nothing.

I was relaxing last night and noticed a show that a HB and I are both fanatics of happened to be on TV at 11pm. For background, we get along very well, great rapport, she tagged along with me to my friend's super bowl get-together this past weekend. Because we were making references to the...

For the first time in a few months, I have my sights set on a particular girl. While I didn't receive much help a few days ago, I'm happy to report that our Super Bowl hangout went well. One of my friends was hosting a party of about 20 people, I invited her to tag along, she happily accepted...

It's good you have some options. Having said that, don't become too emotionally-vested in any of these girls yet because if it doesn't work, you'll be feeling down. Forget about girl #3 for now. Hit her up (call, not text) when she comes back in two weeks. She's leaving tomorrow, so no...

You don't have anything significant to lose. Call them in YOUR ORDER and see if you can make something work. In the conversation, sneak in some of what you talked about (hopefully some C&F) and pick a place/time to meet her. IMO, you took too long with all three girls, but none too long to...

Anyone else? I've discovered that my general personality is great for my internships, jobs and getting ahead. Explains why people say I act, "professional." At the same time, it doesn't translate as well in the social world because I'm so prepped and generally laid back, I'm not as...

You're doing fine. When she talks about other guys, she is TESTING you. Seeing if she can get you to crack. Just keep doing the exact same things you've been doing and you'll be good. If she gets jealous when you talk about other girls, it's putting you in the position of power. If...

That's good, it's what I want to hear. We both offer different things (that are opposites); if I can blend in things I normally do with a couple things that he's good at, I'd be set. I disagree. IMO, it is always good to be reliable/trustworthy. There is nothing good about being...