"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Speaking of unreactive

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A few girls at work asked me if I was going to be working this weekend, I told them no. They said "oh no, who are we going to tease if you're not here?" I said HB7 will be here, tease her. And one of the girls said "We don't want to tease HB7, she reacts. We like to tease you because you don't react".

Now I've heard all this theory about how girls like it if you're nonreactive and I suppose it made sense to me. But I've never heard a girl actually say it. I didn't even think they would be aware of it on a conscious level. Just thought I'd share.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Interesting, but not really surprising. Having a sense of humor, having humility and having a strong frame that won't rattle when others make fun of you, is always a plus. HB7 is probably too sensitive with the ragging and therefore isn't as much fun in that regard.
 
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HB7 is probably too sensitive with the ragging and therefore isn't as much fun in that regard.
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Teasing HB7 would be like kicking a hamster.
 
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