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Recent content by nyc123

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    Being reserved

    It might be that your preference to stay in and play games is not something that you can change. However you are doing the right thing by making that effort to go out and party. If you can find more enjoyment in partying, you would be more motivated to go out more often. My advice is to continue...
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    Well i'm back on the market again...

    welcome back
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    article: They met on a dating site and went bowling. It was a setup, police say, and now he’s dead

    ridiculous how they shot him. they could have just robbed him at gunpoint and left
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    Did I move too fast?

    in this case you moved too fast for her. But that's ok. It happens all the time. You just gotta back off a little and not chase, as someone said above. Don't think you should ignore her or go completely cold. But just tone it down a bit. Talk to her still, flirt a little bit. After some time...
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    A good reason not to get married

    A very good reason indeed. But let's not say all marriages are like this. however I do know quite a few marriages that are like this. How prevalent is the marriage of infrequent sex?
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    How to Approach a group of girls?

    I think that very few guys would be bold enough to approach a group of girls at the park. If I approach at all, I think I'm already not like every other guy. But I could see myself being like every other guy that does approach. I also think that your suggestion about what to do in the bar makes...
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    Taking the red pill up my ass

    I think it's not 100% for sure yet. Although it definitely looks like that's what's happening. If it is, you'll just have to move on from it.
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    How to Approach a group of girls?

    I'm bringing back this thread because I was having trouble with this recently but I don't think I've found the answer. Two stories- I saw 6 Asian girls sitting at some couches at a lounge/bar. I felt the urge to approach. I opened directly with something like "hey excuse me, I know this is...
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    Why did you get into game?

    Frustration, not being able to get the women that I want for various reasons
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    Countries where Asian and Brown guys can do well with women in (my experience)

    Just my two cents I'm Chinese American I once made a dating website account that was popular in the Philippines. It's called date in asia. I had it on for a week. I received a lot more messages on that site in one week than I did in one year in the US on a dating site. Same photos. I think it's...
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    Where to start?

    I don't think there's anything wrong with night life for you, especially since you're interested in it. i don't really understand the church option. lol I also disagree with what someone said above about not thinking about game and focusing on other things. I do agree that you should work on...
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    Messed Up With a Girl I Was Seeing

    she might come around later. play it cool. you did good by going ghost and not being needy.
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    online dating

    I find that the best openers are ones that are not so generic like "hey how's it going?" I know of girls who complain about these openers. Some girls will see this line and suspect that you didn't read their profile information and be annoyed by this. I suggest saying something playful to her...
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    My Journal

    Hi guys. I'm not new here but I haven't been active on this forum. I first discovered it when I was in high school around 2007 but I didn't really become more interested in game until recently. Tonight I went out for the first time to practice daygame on the streets. I came home to review what...
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    Useful Material

    oh this is a great website for social skills- not just with women but with people in general. i definitely recommend it. succeedsocially.com
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