"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A good reason not to get married

El Payaso

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I saw this in someone's post recently and found it interesting. http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/11644430

It seems like men are just a means to an end (wedding, kids, house etc) for many women.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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EverSure75

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I think I read it on this forum that psychologists often have more issues than their clients.
A clinical psychologist is a red flag for me in a woman. Not a deal breaker but it definitely makes me cautious. I dated one once who believed BPD could be cured and specialized in seeing BPD clients. I ran for the hills.

The advice the woman gave is insane and totally unprofessional. I can't believe what I just read.
 

skinnyguy

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It's funny how guys go into a marriage thinking they will get consistent sex.
 

dude99

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What happend here is quite simple. She doesn't love him anymore. When a woman is in love with you they want to have sex with you. She may still "like" her husband but it's obvious she doesn't love him anymore.

She will hang in for a couple of more years let him pay more of the morgage down build more equity in the house, he will give up emotionally check out on the marriage, she will then start screwing other men, file for divorce blame everything on him and take half of his life earnings away and feel justified i doing it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nyc123

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A very good reason indeed. But let's not say all marriages are like this. however I do know quite a few marriages that are like this. How prevalent is the marriage of infrequent sex?
 
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