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Dude, I could have written posts almost exactly like yours a few years ago. What I learned...the hard way....is this golden rule. I don't think there are many absolutes in life, but this is one of them. If she cheats on him SHE's GOING to cheat on you. Guarenteed. I'm sure right now...

Anthony, Another book you might want to check out is "How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure" by Lou Paget. I've read everything I've been able to get my hands on while trying improve at sex and it's the most useful book I've found by far. It goes into lots of detail about the basics of good...

She might have been interested in passing you along to one of her single friends.

There's a great book out there on body language that isn't well known in this community. It's called Star Quality: Seven Steps to Develop Your Charismatic Power and it's by Christen Brown. I just looked it up on Amazon and you can get a used hardcover copy of it for $4.70. It's the only book...

Hey man, a quick note of encouragement. In the past I've been guilty of this same sin. Fortunately, I've found that women are usually VERY quick to forget your AFC spells if you go back to doing the things that attracted her to you again. They don't seem to keep score quite as well as us guys...

I'd go in for the kill (or at least setting up a date now). Ignoring her or playing hard to get is something you do to raise a girl's interest level in you. If she was looking for you after you introduced yourself to her you've already done that. Just start a conversation with her again the...

Dude, You've got to start at least going out with other people. It's an unfortunate fact of life that whenever you try to change your life for the better it's going to make some people you know insecure and jealous. You HAVE to either A) cut them out of your life B) limit the amount of...

Engetsu, Go with your gut instincts on this one no matter how badly AT THE MOMENT you feel like deep down you want to be with her!!! If your initial reaction is that something is missing from her apologies I guarantee it is. Take it from a guy who's stayed in some LTR's too long. When you...

Ditto to what these guys have said. Your post reminds me a lot of myself when my game first started coming together with women. The biggest mistake I was making at that time was that I wasn't selective enough about the women I was bringing into my life because I didn't realize yet how much...

It doesn't sound like this a big deal to this girl so don't make it into one. Just proceed as if it never happened and definitely DO NOT be the one to bring it up and act all apologetic about it. That would be a big mistake and send all the wrong signals to this girl. There's a couple of...

I had a girl say the exact same thing to me when I first met her and I'm a decent looking guy. She's a shorter cutie and I replied to her by saying "Wow, aren't we an angry little midget"....She ended up asking me out.

Hey man, You might want to check out a book called "How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure" by Lou Paget. I spent years trying to find tips on the other acts (fingering, oral, etc.) and this is the only useful source of comprehensive information I've found.

Bboy-Exilex, I just realized a technique that you might want to try to get yourself started approaching women. Go down to your local "jogging path" and walk a couple of miles and just say "hi" to EVERY PERSON whom crosses your path. When I first started approaching women I did something...

Squirrels, What is the measure of a "Don Juan"? A Don Juan is a guy who gets what he wants with women period. There are a billion correct answers to this question and only you can decide what you ultimately want in this area of your life. I've met guys who are phenomenal with women who...