Recent content by GhostWriter

You're not going to have to choose. Date them both. It shows you're desirable; that makes both of them want you even more. Your value goes up having more than one girl around. If one of her friends were interested in you, but the other was not... I guarantee you the interested one isn't going...

Ultimatums are the worst thing a guy can give. It shows that you are out of options. Not only that, but you relinquish any remaining power into her hands. You've giving her the decision to make the outcome of your relationship. From what I've learned, power is a necessity in relationships...

Girl: You're too good for me... Guy: You're right about that. Any excuse that a woman gives you is a lie.

As much as I would like to, what she did was bad behavior. I can't reward her for that.

Hrmm... I understand and thank you for your post Rollo. I know this situation should have never played out in the first place. But I'm stumped. She cooks, cleans, calls and texts me every day (initiates) and has never denied sex (4-5 times a week). I have a few attractive female friends...

I'm 25 and she's 23. I've laid down some laws before we agreed to become exclusive. However, I assumed stuff like this was just common sense. I know I know... assuming is dangerous. Women are so immature It's unreal. I find myself constantly losing respect for them every day.

Thanks so much for your post. It has definitely made me feel better. I know a woman would never admit to anything out of the goodness of their heart. I'm certainly glad that I let her know what the deal is, non-negotiable. Regardless of how things turn out, I'm glad to have known how to...

Thanks for all of the great advice... I'm definitely a 1% in this case. My former AFC beta self disgusts me. Me having already walked away already from someone that crossed my boundary only gives me the strength to do it again. My previous relationship was 8 months long, I found out she was...

I almost always use the speak without speaking method, however today I did not. We've been exclusive for 5 months and dated about 2 months prior. Last week she asked me, "Hey, this guy asked for me number what should I say?" I asked her, "Would you like it if I gave my number to women that...

She is 22 and I'm 25 finishing my 2nd degree in accounting. She is finishing hers in marketing with a minor in finance. She called me today, and I probed questions about her new job. Apparently they are going to train her but not directly from the boss man himself. They have about 20 other...

Hrmm... I see... I'm so ruffled I had to go work out and clear my mind. Now that I'm a bit more rational, I think you guys are all right. I'm still in college as well, It's my inability to be a provider. Maybe I just got out played. I need to become so alpha that this will never happen...

Well... she has been giving me all of the business cards so far. I just give them back and tell her to throw them away. However, she is looking for a professional job since she is graduating soon.. Which I completely understand, but I'm not rationalizing her behavior one bit. I...

Thanks for the reply. I do not feel the need to research the company, I'm pretty sure It's a legit firm. However, the last time I checked, the requirements for becoming a corporate tax accountant are indeed in fact a bachelors in accounting or finance. My gut is telling me... Me...

Hey guys, so my girlfriend is currently a bartender finishing up her undergrad. She gets a lot of business cards from men b/c she's physically attractive. Today, she tells me she's going to start a job tomorrow (and for the first time flakes for tonight) in a completely different field from...

I had a really good friend (we had a falling out) that lost his virginity to a *****. We were both 21 and still virgins. I told myself I wasn't going to get a ***** for the first time because I innately knew if I were to do the deed, I'd get addicted and wouldn't evolve because there would be...