I had been with this girl for 9 months and I thought everything was great, really serious about her but she had very little confidence. She'd said before she thought I was too good for her etc. but I said I loved her and wanted to be with her. Yesterday she called me saying it wont last because I dont make enough effort to see her. But Im not the most confident myself so don't always initiate meeting up. I tried talking to her to convince her not to end it, but she told me to leave and said it cant work. I'm unsure whether to not speak at all, or try and convince her it will work because we were really in love for the past few months and it is something I want. Any advice today would be great, thanks