Recent content by blindnowisee

I've noticed this as well. I always seem to hit this point at around 2-3 months in with a new plate after which I tend to lose them as I'm not really looking to commit.

I took out a personal loan to pay off my own debts + the debts of my ex. Never doing that again :-)

It's simple really. You go through phases: Phase 1 - straight after breakup: using no contact to protect your heart from further pain and agony. Phase 2: using no contact as a way to shift your attention from thinking about her all day every day to improving yourself, becoming a better person...

Stop victimizing yourself and man the @$&*% up. “Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.”

So basically you're: - a part of the **** carrousel by laying women but not committing - hating the ladies who ride the **** carrousel Stop hating the game.. just get better at it ;-)

When you start asking yourself this question.. it's over

First things first: If the first 2 dates only "went ok", why would you want to spend more time with this woman? Seems to me you're somewhat desperately seeking a relationship. You should have cut the strings on this one after two "ok" dates imho.

Desdinova; I seem to resonate with some of your posts so just wanted to give you a word of warning.. After breaking up with your longterm gf and hitting the dating scene again imho you'll hit 2 discoveries: 1- you need to find yourself a girl who is better than your ex otherwise the...

You're 16 years old.. Live your life before "committing".. That's not a word a 16 year old should have in their vocabulary ;-)

I'm 26. First question is valid. Let me give you my reply: I've been spinning plates since the beginning of the year and enjoying every minute of it. Got a bunch of girls on speed-dial / drunk-dial / booty-call however you want to call it.. but seem to favor one girl above the others...

So I opened a topic with a similar question titled "Looks versus personality" and I struggled with the same question. When we talk about HB7 etc are we talking physical appearance only? If this isn't the case then surely marrying someone and labeling her a HB7 is pure madness? That's...

26 and no money - get a job.

Two things spring to mind: 1- You're trying way too hard to be funny. Comedy=context. I can tell that the responses you were given were not congruent with your personality (i.e. if this was a date you would never say that.. not saying the line was shiz (which it is btw ;-) but it's all...

I had a sweet date yesterday and wanted to hear your opinions on one of the brainfarts I was having this morning: I've been spinning plates for the past 6 months now and enjoying every aspect of life however on my date yesterday with one of the new plates I found myself thinking: - How do...

@samspade: Solid post. The words "worked on the relationship" struck a cord with me as I was one of these guys once. Had a feeling my gf was cheating on me and I uttered those same words.. needless to say it wasn't one of my proudest moments :-)