Recent content by babsan

You're right Scars. Should press on more. I was in my head too much with the last girl, I thought it's too soon cuz the former didn't like me pushing aggressively for sex. But the make out was intense, maybe she expected more but I just left? I was even shaking a little bit because I knew it was...

Without going to the hookers or something like that... I am having some problems getting the full close with multiple women. I'm not a virgin anymore, but it has been a long time. I dunno, maybe it shows somehow. I have no trouble approaching, getting interest, number closing if I don't...

how was I so needy? I did back off. Why would she invite me inside her house at 4 AM? to show me her guinea pigs? If a girl told you she only wants to get together as friends, how can I accept that if that's not what I want. I really don't need any more friends.

So now I am in the friendzone... Can anyone explain to me how this happened? So she invited me in after going out. I tried taking off her pants after kissing her mouth, neck and stomache, but I was stopped. Should I have pushed (remind you it was only the second date after an insta-date)? I...

Sup guys, I'm having some problems with LMR. For example with the last chick, we had a fun date drinking and chatting away. I biked with her home and she invited me in. So ofcourse I took that as an opportunity to escalate further. Lately girls are saying stuff like, "no, the pants stay" or...

"okay let's kiss then"

C/F doesn't seem appropriate. Just go into story telling about previous experiences and how that can contribute to your performance for the company. Just be real.

I'd come to Amsterdam and sarge with you when I have time to go there again (from Groningen).

Could be. How do you give off the impression you would kick anyone's ass for disrespect, but you don't actually should do that every time? Thanks for the wise words everyone.

nah, ya'll misunderstanding. I should've been more descriptive. It wasn't a homeless guy, I think. I don't care about legal backing or not, being spit on felt like a first punch. All I did was chicken out and make a sign like 'next time I'll kill you'. So I was intimidated by this random...

No, it wasn't a real bum. I have given real bums money. This dude just didn't have enough money to buy his stuff and was aggressively demanding money from total strangers. Oh and btw, 60 euro cents is like a dollar.

Indeed, I'm only paying for my own drug habit (hasj). Trying to cut down though, because of exams. I did diffuse the situation calmly, but being spit at in the face is a lot of disrespect...

Today some junkie asked for 60 cents. I told him no and went into a 'coffeeshop'. Outside again, he spit on me. I was thinking: why would I beat up someone like that. Later I thought that response was based on fear. What is your personal boundary?

Funny? Just sad.

How about Seattle? I might visit in the summer. Anyone wanna go sarging with flying dutchman?