"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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babsan

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Sup guys,

I'm having some problems with LMR. For example with the last chick, we had a fun date drinking and chatting away. I biked with her home and she invited me in. So ofcourse I took that as an opportunity to escalate further. Lately girls are saying stuff like, "no, the pants stay" or "don't go in". I'm thinking they wanna trick me into a relationship and remain with some power, therefor don't wanna have sex. How can I overcome this? I can't escalate again after that, because I'm not the guy to pressure them into anything. Or should I try to anyway?

Try again when both aren't that tired? Is this really some powerplay or just a girl with morals not giving up after a couple of dates?

Any insight would be appreciated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You need to read the VinDiCarlo escalation ladder. This is a series of steps designed to get you laid without any LMR. It works.
 

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mr_elor said:
Interestingly, since I've been trying to go properly natural I haven't had a problem with LMR.
Yea . Because girl will know why she's coming to your house .

On other hand , Mystery tells us to call girl home by saying her that youll tell something interesting and sh!t like that . Thats why you get LMR because she comes for something else and get something else .

You better tell her WE"RE GOING TO WATCH A MOVIE AND HAVE SOME FUN than ILL SHOW SOMETHING ON MY COMPUTER or ILL SHOW YOU A BOOK even through they put down the thinking that she be taken as a slut.
 

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So now I am in the friendzone... Can anyone explain to me how this happened?
So she invited me in after going out. I tried taking off her pants after kissing her mouth, neck and stomache, but I was stopped. Should I have pushed (remind you it was only the second date after an insta-date)? I thought, oh well, and we just passed out. After this she only wants to be friends and I don't understand. We've been kissing a lot and a bit of dancing. So how can I get in the friendszone (by SMS)? I texted I don't need any more friends. Then she was like: that's your choice. So is this is? Did I **** up and how?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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very simple
you rushing things, take it slower
stop being a needy bish

if she lets you kiss her mouth / neck and stomach, that means she likes you enough to do so.

she wants you to calm the fk down

you weren't in the friendzone, but you rejected yourself with your pitiful response of "I don't need any more friends"


what a loser. Next time make sure you don't act like a needy little bish who hasn't masturbeted for 20 days.
 

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how was I so needy? I did back off. Why would she invite me inside her house at 4 AM? to show me her guinea pigs? If a girl told you she only wants to get together as friends, how can I accept that if that's not what I want. I really don't need any more friends.
 
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