"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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babsan

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Sup guys,

I'm having some problems with LMR. For example with the last chick, we had a fun date drinking and chatting away. I biked with her home and she invited me in. So ofcourse I took that as an opportunity to escalate further. Lately girls are saying stuff like, "no, the pants stay" or "don't go in". I'm thinking they wanna trick me into a relationship and remain with some power, therefor don't wanna have sex. How can I overcome this? I can't escalate again after that, because I'm not the guy to pressure them into anything. Or should I try to anyway?

Try again when both aren't that tired? Is this really some powerplay or just a girl with morals not giving up after a couple of dates?

Any insight would be appreciated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You need to read the VinDiCarlo escalation ladder. This is a series of steps designed to get you laid without any LMR. It works.
 

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mr_elor said:
Interestingly, since I've been trying to go properly natural I haven't had a problem with LMR.
Yea . Because girl will know why she's coming to your house .

On other hand , Mystery tells us to call girl home by saying her that youll tell something interesting and sh!t like that . Thats why you get LMR because she comes for something else and get something else .

You better tell her WE"RE GOING TO WATCH A MOVIE AND HAVE SOME FUN than ILL SHOW SOMETHING ON MY COMPUTER or ILL SHOW YOU A BOOK even through they put down the thinking that she be taken as a slut.
 

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So now I am in the friendzone... Can anyone explain to me how this happened?
So she invited me in after going out. I tried taking off her pants after kissing her mouth, neck and stomache, but I was stopped. Should I have pushed (remind you it was only the second date after an insta-date)? I thought, oh well, and we just passed out. After this she only wants to be friends and I don't understand. We've been kissing a lot and a bit of dancing. So how can I get in the friendszone (by SMS)? I texted I don't need any more friends. Then she was like: that's your choice. So is this is? Did I **** up and how?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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very simple
you rushing things, take it slower
stop being a needy bish

if she lets you kiss her mouth / neck and stomach, that means she likes you enough to do so.

she wants you to calm the fk down

you weren't in the friendzone, but you rejected yourself with your pitiful response of "I don't need any more friends"


what a loser. Next time make sure you don't act like a needy little bish who hasn't masturbeted for 20 days.
 

babsan

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how was I so needy? I did back off. Why would she invite me inside her house at 4 AM? to show me her guinea pigs? If a girl told you she only wants to get together as friends, how can I accept that if that's not what I want. I really don't need any more friends.
 
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