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Have you not read the “mission statements” from the BLM leadership? This is one of their goals, all out in the open. At least they’re honest about that point.

You don’t. That’s just cringey/autistic/creepy and most likely a one-way ticket to getting #metoo’d I hope to god that you’re trolling. Or have men these days fallen so far that they think this is acceptable?

Pretty much this. In fact I've had this exact situation happen not too long ago. I take it as a compliment if I get hit up by a gay guy. I simply turn them down. And more often than not, that's the end of it.

Funny you bring this up; I just moved away from St Louis a year ago (new job, new city) But when I did live there, I pulled quite a few girls from concerts in the area...Pop's, the Pageant, the Firebird. At least that's where "my" type was. I still make weekend trips to St Louis to go to...

All of the advise given so far is all good. I managed to drop ~55 lbs in the last 9 months (after a regrettable unhealthy bulk phase) by emphasizing cardio in my workout routine. I was cycling 20 miles a day, 5-6 times a week. Pedal-to-the-metal riding, basically trying to cover that distance...

Ever heard of the expression, "Don't sh*t where you eat?" I'd advise against workplace dating, but that's just me. All the nonsense it leads to (and stories I read on here) if the relationship goes tits-up is enough reason to avoid it. But if you really must pursue this woman, ASK for her...

Don't let anyone -- or any woman -- hold you back from chasing what you want most in life. Be it career sucess, fitness success, financial success -- whatever, focus on what matters most of all: YOU. Then everything else will follow in time.

Man, this stuff happens; sometimes more often than not. As long as you've got another plate(s) spinning, it makes it so much easier to brush it off and move along. Just know you've done everything you could: you cut her out, cut contact. Even if she comes crawling back, you know better now...

Couldn't say it better myself. It's a fantastic idea.

This is from a vid on YouTube (can't find the link right now..) You'll need a pair of 25lb dumbells for this: 8 x curls 8 x Shoulder Press 8 x Upright Rows 8 x Bent Over rows 8 x 1 arm rows 8 x Pushups (4 seconds up, 4 seconds down) 8 x Side laterals 8 x shrugs 8 x deadlifts Do this as a 1...

Was about to say it myself, pull a Harrison Ford and say, "I know."

Like you, I can only make it to the gym 3x a week (school and work take up my other time) My routines look something like this; it was suggested by a friend of mine: DAY A: Back and biceps: Dumbell/bar curls Rows (bent over, upright, seated cable) Pull ups Back extension DAY B...

I'm gonna have to go with married/'in a relationship,' too. Possible low interest for someone else? It could be something less than that; either way, I'd roll with it 'til I know for sure.

No contact means no contact. She's the one who wanted a "break," which means it's over. There's a reason communication lessened. Move on.

I feel you, man. I'm constantly warm no matter what. Thankfully, Jariel, I don't have the lightheaded symptoms you have (which must suck). It just sucks looking like hell when I work out -- sweating, red face, etc -- the guys asking me if I'm alright -- the thing is, I feel totally fine, no...