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Time to move on buddy. I had a very similar situation and I tried to soldier on through it and it became a real mess. I learnt a heap from it! Don't make up an excuse, just tell her you don't feel the spark anymore. No point lying to her. If she accepts it you may end up with a handy female friend.

Well I have been getting a few hints that she wants me to ask her, so back to my question, how should I go about this?

OK guys, I've met a girl who I think is definitely the sort of girl I would like to have a relationship with. We met back in August and slept together around September/October. Since then we have become really good friends and have contact with each other most days. The thing I want to know is...

We have slept together and since become good friends. I have taken the punt and bought her a gift, a running t-shirt as she's a runner. Spent $65 roughly. Thanks for your help guys.

Well it seems everyone on this forum knows the meaning of love and life so why not post here? I'm always interested to hear what some of the people on here have to say.....stupid or not!

SO tell me guys, does the Don Juan give a Christmas gift to the girl he is interested in or does he pretend she's not worth it and get nothing even if she MAY possibly get you something??

Guys! Such great advice, yet it was all so simple. Well I guess that's what this forum is for, thanks again guys.

Thanks Danny, anyone else got some idea's? I know there must be someone out there amongst you Don's who has some experience with this sort of situation. Thanks guys!

Alright guys, a girl I am really interested in taking things further with is going into hospital soon, nothing major, and it'll only be an in one day, out the next thing, but I'm wondering what I should do with this situation/opportunity in regards to showing some sort of sign that I'm thinking...

That is the hard one! I have no idea at this stage. I need to have a sit down and think about this. Thanks to everyone for their input so far, keep it coming.

Hmm, thanks for the advice there Barbillus. I like your thinking. She isn't shy and passive at all so I probably do need to see if she is interested in having sex with me again and often. When we first met we slept together a few times but the past few months we haven't, mianly due to both of us...

Thanks for the advice guys. I certainly didn't use the "I'm not looking for a relationship" line to decieve as at the time I'd just come out of a 3yr relationship and wanted some time to be single and get back to my old self. I think I'll take the plunge and tell her I'd like to take things...

Alright guys I need some help here. I've been seeing a girl for quite a few months now amongst a couple of others but this one just seems to be right for me and I'd like to take thigs further. I am pretty sure she feels the same but she seems a little wary of getting into a relationship. I am...

Thanks for the tip lifeforce, I like your thinking. I was actually thinking of asking her if she'd "like to come over as I had a few ideas which might help her relax and unwind......so to speak". Still to strong or is that subtle enough? The reason I had that line in mind is because she's been...