"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Gamisch
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This is the definition of insanity regarding modern dating...I tell dudes like this also to forget about the apps..
Identikit_Radiohead
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Cheeky_James
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not enough context here.
Gamisch
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I did found his picture..he may be considered below average( smv4) but still..a man's smv can ofcourse increase if his statusis solid..
I'm sure that a dude like this up untill 15 years ago might've been a solid provider who gets cheated on eventually ( but that happens to the best of us init?). I conclude that because the "you go girl" motivational speech would go like "hey at least 195 women did swiped right!!!!! And you only need one you go GURL".
The reason why the picture isn't that important is because I've seen TONS of similar posts. Tons. You can 10x his positive results and it still would be embarrassing.
Identikit_Radiohead
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That's the fault of men for just spamming.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Women, regardless of how they look, their biology is designed to pick the most suitable mate. Back in the day they just had the people in their school, college, workplace, neighborhood, etc.
Now they have thousands of men that can be evaluated at their fingertips within a second. They will maximize to find the best man in that environment which means most men are rejections, especially since the only thing they have to go off of is looks.
Not a hard concept to understand.
We_ArE_VeNOM
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"I want to see pics of another man, so I can put things in perspective".
Sounds kinda sassy, to me.