"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Gamisch
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This is the definition of insanity regarding modern dating...I tell dudes like this also to forget about the apps..
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Cheeky_James
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not enough context here.
Gamisch
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I did found his picture..he may be considered below average( smv4) but still..a man's smv can ofcourse increase if his statusis solid..
I'm sure that a dude like this up untill 15 years ago might've been a solid provider who gets cheated on eventually ( but that happens to the best of us init?). I conclude that because the "you go girl" motivational speech would go like "hey at least 195 women did swiped right!!!!! And you only need one you go GURL".
The reason why the picture isn't that important is because I've seen TONS of similar posts. Tons. You can 10x his positive results and it still would be embarrassing.