"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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New Study finds 50% of single people have fallen in love with someone they weren't initially attracted to

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Study was done in partnership with the Match Group OP. Lmao.

"The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University conducted its annual "Singles in America" study in partnership with Match."

And Kinsey himself was a major, major perv who included kids in his sexuality studies.

Time to feast on some low hanging fruit @Cheeky_James
 
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Study was done in partnership with the Match Group OP. Lmao.

"The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University conducted its annual "Singles in America" study in partnership with Match."

And Kinsey himself was a major, major perv who included kids in his sexuality studies.

Time to feast on some low hanging fruit @Cheeky_James
Well, unfortunately it's simply reiterating the things that many other studies have already said. At some point you have to accept the truth might not be what you want it to be.
 

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well well well!
I’ll have to read through it later.
It will of course depend on the age brackets , the competition is fiercest in the younger brackets. Women loosen up /comprimise in older brackets afaik /ime.

All I can say is , when I look around here IRL I see looks matched couples everywhere for the vast majority, as a rule.

but hey mayhe it’s a cultural thing. I am in Aus after all . Not US or UK..
I would say , be mindful of the source of the data and how it’s collected. What bias is in there etc.

And I would seek real world evidence in pictures. (Not celebs btw)
 

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Well, unfortunately it's simply reiterating the things that many other studies have already said. At some point you have to accept the truth might not be what you want it to be.
I'm not sure what CJ's theory (referred to in the OP) is. I'm just saying Match has a vested interest in a certain narrative that will boost their revenue. Yes, women can warm to men in real life but it's less likely to happen on the apps the Match Group owns.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm not sure what CJ's theory (referred to in the OP) is. I'm just saying Match has a vested interest in a certain narrative that will boost their revenue. Yes, women can warm to men in real life but it's less likely to happen on the apps the Match Group owns.
Yes, the study was not about specifically dating apps, it was about if it had ever occured in their lifetime.
 
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