SpartanWarrior77
Master Don Juan
are there any mature DJs out there that are ready to settle down, ready to get out of the game and feel that they live in the right city to meet their ride or die? I’m looking for one or two guys to create a serious accountability challenge where we choose a duration probably between 30 to 90 days and systematically go out and approach through day game primarily in the search of the one. I’ve been doing this myself for about 30 days now and it has been very tough on me psychologically. I’m in the right city to do what I need to do, but it’s proving to be a lot more difficult than I thought it would, part of the reason for this is that the type I am looking for is rare. The reason I’m looking for guys that are also looking for the one is that I don’t want to be tempted by other dudes that are ****ing around still…
I’ve done around 20 day game approaches in the past month, but these are like sniper approaches meaning I sat around for a long time until I thought she was attractive enough and had the right vibe it, etc. It might not sound like a lot of approaching, but that’s because I’m looking for the one, not looking for another notch.
I’ve also done some Instagram game plus used a little bit of online dating, but yeah, it’s been a rough month, I don’t think I’ve gotten a single date except one chick right before I started the challenge.
I’m also going through financial issues at the moment they’re adding a huge amount of pressure.
Most guys don’t understand my approach/strategy nor do they understand my standards. They don’t realize the effort/time I put into the game. It’s psychologically lonely to do this type of thing bc even my close friends don’t see the power in systematic daygame/goal-oriented daygame. They kind of just go with the flow.
The idea would be we set a challenge for the duration I mentioned, we check in every few days or so, or whenever we want, and we hold each other accountable to a certain amount of approaching, etc.
we can have a call and or some kind of chat beforehand if you wanna stay anonymous or we go over strategy/tactics to get the right amount of volume/be able to properly select targets throughout the process. We could also go over dating procedures, ways to avoid rushing the process while also avoid avoiding wasting too much time on leads that are clearly not worth the effort.
We also try to emotionally support each other throughout the process because I don’t know about you guys, but I don’t know anyone who systematically approaches their game/truly understands the grind of that process and the psychological pain that comes with dealing with high volumes of rejection, which are way worse, especially when you’re actually looking for a girlfriend because you’re actually trying to be a gentleman and you actually do care about the woman so the rejection hurts, this isn’t just getting blown out by some random chicken at a bar… Anyways, feel free to ask questions in the thread or DM me however you want.
I’ve done around 20 day game approaches in the past month, but these are like sniper approaches meaning I sat around for a long time until I thought she was attractive enough and had the right vibe it, etc. It might not sound like a lot of approaching, but that’s because I’m looking for the one, not looking for another notch.
I’ve also done some Instagram game plus used a little bit of online dating, but yeah, it’s been a rough month, I don’t think I’ve gotten a single date except one chick right before I started the challenge.
I’m also going through financial issues at the moment they’re adding a huge amount of pressure.
Most guys don’t understand my approach/strategy nor do they understand my standards. They don’t realize the effort/time I put into the game. It’s psychologically lonely to do this type of thing bc even my close friends don’t see the power in systematic daygame/goal-oriented daygame. They kind of just go with the flow.
The idea would be we set a challenge for the duration I mentioned, we check in every few days or so, or whenever we want, and we hold each other accountable to a certain amount of approaching, etc.
we can have a call and or some kind of chat beforehand if you wanna stay anonymous or we go over strategy/tactics to get the right amount of volume/be able to properly select targets throughout the process. We could also go over dating procedures, ways to avoid rushing the process while also avoid avoiding wasting too much time on leads that are clearly not worth the effort.
We also try to emotionally support each other throughout the process because I don’t know about you guys, but I don’t know anyone who systematically approaches their game/truly understands the grind of that process and the psychological pain that comes with dealing with high volumes of rejection, which are way worse, especially when you’re actually looking for a girlfriend because you’re actually trying to be a gentleman and you actually do care about the woman so the rejection hurts, this isn’t just getting blown out by some random chicken at a bar… Anyways, feel free to ask questions in the thread or DM me however you want.
