"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Getting HOTTER women through any version of ‘Game’

Prepostereax

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Getting HOTTER women

The first thing you gotta ask yourself is, what for?

If it's just to bang, ons, plate, whatever..
Then this doesn't matter:
The bottom of the 8 tier.
8s-with-lotsa-problems kinda deal. Broken 8s. Mental issues etc (lol)
I’m keeping it real here
If you're after something longer term, then hate to break it to you, but women who are obvious hotties generally aren't long-term material

I mean, if she's all dolled up in slutwear, what does that tell you?

The ones to go for long-term are "sleeper" hotties
Prob only 6 or 7 say at first glance
But when she makes an effort, and if she's into you, she will make that effort, BAM
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cheeky_James

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Yeah sorry I thought u were calling me out. Yeah I mostly agree with what you're saying. The one caveat would be some guys would be better off not trying to succeed in the west in the first place, for example: they would be better off taking their (remote job usually) and just living somewhere else and paying less tax/less cost of living.

But yeah, for some guys, the pay-cut and inability to go to another country due to skill/job prospects would definitely become logistically very difficult so the strategy still remains somewhat inaccessible for the majority.

But yeah, I guess im just trying to counter some of the common criticisms around it being "scummy" to go to another country. Im tired of hearing that from guys bc in that sense it's reductive. It doesn't take into account simple things like just wanting to have a different cultural experience. I also feel like part of the feminist-reaction and covert-operative conditioning from post-wall women will be to have men internalize notions like it being "scummy" or whatever other term they'll come up with to shame guys into getting with them when they're tired and looking for a provider.
yeah I don’t think it’s bad at all.
I’d advise any dude, especially younger dudes to do a few months of travel in SEA if they can. Get a loan if they can’t afford. Go and see how they can get laid easy as taking a p1ss.

but in terms of relationships it’s still risky , as these Asian women are master players of men. And can take guys for everything via relationships.

Not sure about other countries like South America etc I’d say it could be similar.

Yknow Mark Manson the ex pua/post pua self help author? He actually geo-maxxed to meet his wife. He met her in a nightclub in Brazil at 3am.
Doing DHV routines probably .lol,

He doesn’t mention this in his book ‘Models’ tho afaik ;)
His famous post PUA tome about attracting women through ‘honesty’…LOLZ.


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she’s very cute.
But in Brazil she’d be considered ‘average Brazilian girl’ . They all look like that over there. :D:p

Look at him double parked with the drinks..
Nervous much Mark?? :rofl: IMG_9118.jpeg
she blew him out first approach.. he came back with the ‘Russian Grammar DHV routine’ hahaha
I’d speculate the 10,000 hours he’d already spent tryna Game chicks in nightclubs may have helped Mark in that situation hey.. :D
 
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In the summer I look for boat parties, fashion events, day parties and similar events on Eventbrite. Proximity and familiarity matter more than most guys want to admit. Being around attractive women regularly (and being seen as a normal, non-creepy guy who belongs there) beats cold approaching random girls in clubs.
This is why I don't make it a priority to cold approach. It's a lot easier and more enjoyable to have more rapport with a group that has similar interest.

There’s been heaps of post-PUAs over the years saying that. even Neil Strauss said it in the book The Game(!) “sarging is for losers”.
Then a few million guys read that book… and went out sarging hahaha.:rolleyes:
I think when Neil decided to go "undercover" he thought the term was cheesy and retarded too. But the definition stuck and it was used interchangeably.
 

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yeah I don’t think it’s bad at all.
I’d advise any dude, especially younger dudes to do a few months of travel in SEA if they can. Get a loan if they can’t afford. Go and see how they can get laid easy as taking a p1ss.

but in terms of relationships it’s still risky , as these Asian women are master players of men. And can take guys for everything via relationships.

Not sure about other countries like South America etc I’d say it could be similar.

Yknow Mark Manson the ex pua/post pua self help author? He actually geo-maxxed to meet his wife. He met her in a nightclub in Brazil at 3am.
Doing DHV routines probably .lol,

He doesn’t mention this in his book ‘Models’ tho afaik ;)
His famous post PUA tome about attracting women through ‘honesty’…LOLZ.


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she’s very cute.
But in Brazil she’d be considered ‘average Brazilian girl’ . They all look like that over there. :D:p

Look at him double parked with the drinks..
Nervous much Mark?? :rofl: View attachment 15782
she blew him out first approach.. he came back with the ‘Russian Grammar DHV routine’ hahaha
I’d speculate the 10,000 hours he’d already spent tryna Game chicks in nightclubs may have helped Mark in that situation hey.. :D

Awesome post @Cheeky_James - ur bringing excitement to my nervous system deadened by too much cynicism and uninspired interactions. beautiful to see Mark Manson getting after it with a Brazilian beauty, im telling ya, the smart dudes are doing it. You'd have to go through 500 approaches to meet one girl like you could meet in Brazil in one week. It's insane.

Brazilian girls are some of the sweetest/best in the world for some reason too IMO.

Yeaha lot of young men should do what it takes to see how much better it is abroad. And you're right, some of these Asian chicks and latin americans are MASTER manipulators but thats another reason why men need to go there, they need exposure to those kind of games, its kind of like developing street smarts, u take ur licks and u learn. Just don't commit or have children until you've had a few years in the game, cliché advice but its true.
 

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Awesome post @Cheeky_James - ur bringing excitement to my nervous system deadened by too much cynicism and uninspired interactions. beautiful to see Mark Manson getting after it with a Brazilian beauty, im telling ya, the smart dudes are doing it. You'd have to go through 500 approaches to meet one girl like you could meet in Brazil in one week. It's insane.

Brazilian girls are some of the sweetest/best in the world for some reason too IMO.

Yeaha lot of young men should do what it takes to see how much better it is abroad. And you're right, some of these Asian chicks and latin americans are MASTER manipulators but thats another reason why men need to go there, they need exposure to those kind of games, its kind of like developing street smarts, u take ur licks and u learn. Just don't commit or have children until you've had a few years in the game, cliché advice but its true.
yes there is definitely something special about the Brazileiros :D I dated a Brazilian girl here in my current country of residence and hung out with a gang of them. They have a unique ‘lust for life ‘ was my impression…”Viva La Vida .life is for living- let’s make it a party! “ type attitude…

most were above average looking (a few were real stunners ) very social, and all great dancers too:up::love:
would love to go travel there…:p
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SpartanWarrior77

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yes there is definitely something special about the Brazileiros :D I dated a Brazilian girl here in my current country of residence and hung out with a gang of them. They have a unique ‘lust for life ‘ was my impression…”Viva La Vida .life is for living- let’s make it a party! “ type attitude…

most were above average looking (a few were real stunners ) very social, and all great dancers too:up::love:
would love to go travel there…:p
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damnn opened this post in a crowded restaurant joint, had to decrease brightness :pPP but yeah cant go wrong with. brazilianasssssss
 
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