"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Getting HOTTER women through any version of ‘Game’

Prepostereax

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Getting HOTTER women

The first thing you gotta ask yourself is, what for?

If it's just to bang, ons, plate, whatever..
Then this doesn't matter:
The bottom of the 8 tier.
8s-with-lotsa-problems kinda deal. Broken 8s. Mental issues etc (lol)
I’m keeping it real here
If you're after something longer term, then hate to break it to you, but women who are obvious hotties generally aren't long-term material

I mean, if she's all dolled up in slutwear, what does that tell you?

The ones to go for long-term are "sleeper" hotties
Prob only 6 or 7 say at first glance
But when she makes an effort, and if she's into you, she will make that effort, BAM
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cheeky_James

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Yeah sorry I thought u were calling me out. Yeah I mostly agree with what you're saying. The one caveat would be some guys would be better off not trying to succeed in the west in the first place, for example: they would be better off taking their (remote job usually) and just living somewhere else and paying less tax/less cost of living.

But yeah, for some guys, the pay-cut and inability to go to another country due to skill/job prospects would definitely become logistically very difficult so the strategy still remains somewhat inaccessible for the majority.

But yeah, I guess im just trying to counter some of the common criticisms around it being "scummy" to go to another country. Im tired of hearing that from guys bc in that sense it's reductive. It doesn't take into account simple things like just wanting to have a different cultural experience. I also feel like part of the feminist-reaction and covert-operative conditioning from post-wall women will be to have men internalize notions like it being "scummy" or whatever other term they'll come up with to shame guys into getting with them when they're tired and looking for a provider.
yeah I don’t think it’s bad at all.
I’d advise any dude, especially younger dudes to do a few months of travel in SEA if they can. Get a loan if they can’t afford. Go and see how they can get laid easy as taking a p1ss.

but in terms of relationships it’s still risky , as these Asian women are master players of men. And can take guys for everything via relationships.

Not sure about other countries like South America etc I’d say it could be similar.

Yknow Mark Manson the ex pua/post pua self help author? He actually geo-maxxed to meet his wife. He met her in a nightclub in Brazil at 3am.
Doing DHV routines probably .lol,

He doesn’t mention this in his book ‘Models’ tho afaik ;)
His famous post PUA tome about attracting women through ‘honesty’…LOLZ.


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she’s very cute.
But in Brazil she’d be considered ‘average Brazilian girl’ . They all look like that over there. :D:p

Look at him double parked with the drinks..
Nervous much Mark?? :rofl: IMG_9118.jpeg
she blew him out first approach.. he came back with the ‘Russian Grammar DHV routine’ hahaha
I’d speculate the 10,000 hours he’d already spent tryna Game chicks in nightclubs may have helped Mark in that situation hey.. :D
 
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DonJefe19

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In the summer I look for boat parties, fashion events, day parties and similar events on Eventbrite. Proximity and familiarity matter more than most guys want to admit. Being around attractive women regularly (and being seen as a normal, non-creepy guy who belongs there) beats cold approaching random girls in clubs.
This is why I don't make it a priority to cold approach. It's a lot easier and more enjoyable to have more rapport with a group that has similar interest.

There’s been heaps of post-PUAs over the years saying that. even Neil Strauss said it in the book The Game(!) “sarging is for losers”.
Then a few million guys read that book… and went out sarging hahaha.:rolleyes:
I think when Neil decided to go "undercover" he thought the term was cheesy and retarded too. But the definition stuck and it was used interchangeably.
 

SpartanWarrior77

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yeah I don’t think it’s bad at all.
I’d advise any dude, especially younger dudes to do a few months of travel in SEA if they can. Get a loan if they can’t afford. Go and see how they can get laid easy as taking a p1ss.

but in terms of relationships it’s still risky , as these Asian women are master players of men. And can take guys for everything via relationships.

Not sure about other countries like South America etc I’d say it could be similar.

Yknow Mark Manson the ex pua/post pua self help author? He actually geo-maxxed to meet his wife. He met her in a nightclub in Brazil at 3am.
Doing DHV routines probably .lol,

He doesn’t mention this in his book ‘Models’ tho afaik ;)
His famous post PUA tome about attracting women through ‘honesty’…LOLZ.


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she’s very cute.
But in Brazil she’d be considered ‘average Brazilian girl’ . They all look like that over there. :D:p

Look at him double parked with the drinks..
Nervous much Mark?? :rofl: View attachment 15782
she blew him out first approach.. he came back with the ‘Russian Grammar DHV routine’ hahaha
I’d speculate the 10,000 hours he’d already spent tryna Game chicks in nightclubs may have helped Mark in that situation hey.. :D

Awesome post @Cheeky_James - ur bringing excitement to my nervous system deadened by too much cynicism and uninspired interactions. beautiful to see Mark Manson getting after it with a Brazilian beauty, im telling ya, the smart dudes are doing it. You'd have to go through 500 approaches to meet one girl like you could meet in Brazil in one week. It's insane.

Brazilian girls are some of the sweetest/best in the world for some reason too IMO.

Yeaha lot of young men should do what it takes to see how much better it is abroad. And you're right, some of these Asian chicks and latin americans are MASTER manipulators but thats another reason why men need to go there, they need exposure to those kind of games, its kind of like developing street smarts, u take ur licks and u learn. Just don't commit or have children until you've had a few years in the game, cliché advice but its true.
 

Cheeky_James

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Awesome post @Cheeky_James - ur bringing excitement to my nervous system deadened by too much cynicism and uninspired interactions. beautiful to see Mark Manson getting after it with a Brazilian beauty, im telling ya, the smart dudes are doing it. You'd have to go through 500 approaches to meet one girl like you could meet in Brazil in one week. It's insane.

Brazilian girls are some of the sweetest/best in the world for some reason too IMO.

Yeaha lot of young men should do what it takes to see how much better it is abroad. And you're right, some of these Asian chicks and latin americans are MASTER manipulators but thats another reason why men need to go there, they need exposure to those kind of games, its kind of like developing street smarts, u take ur licks and u learn. Just don't commit or have children until you've had a few years in the game, cliché advice but its true.
yes there is definitely something special about the Brazileiros :D I dated a Brazilian girl here in Aus and hung out with a gang of them. They have a unique ‘lust for life ‘ was my impression.’ life is for living- let’s have a party ‘ attitude.. most were good looking (a few were stunners ) and all great dancers too:up::love:
would love to go travel there…:p
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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