what is it about children that makes them scary ?? or is it that you see no value in the child ?? or ??
Not scary, I feel fashinated by them, and they like to be with me.
But I cannot be funny 100% of time, so I will also be serious.
And what I notice most is kids like to stay with me, but they go away too soon.
(Like being with cats)
I'm not scary by them, but I do not intimidate or dictate them.
I leave kids free of doing everything they want to, but when they exagerate I'm there to remember them to see and respect the boundaries.
What would you know more?
Rejoice in the fact that you're among the few who DOES receive compliments
I mean, I am, I am just willing to understand why something works and why not.
Use your eyes as a weapon, OP. Demonstrate the willingness to hold your gaze but after that use it sparingly. Leave them wanting to see your eyes more. Once they demonstrate they are into your eyes, look at them with a slight smirk the next time, but don't hold your gaze as often or as long. Tease them using your eyes.
This must be learned somehow, I think I could trial and error in improvisation school, where I'm now
