"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Best way to bang chicks?

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Any advice on best way to bang chicks as quick as possible? 24 at home. Before my method was hitting up tinder or hinge swiping through and hitting everyone who matches and asks them what they're doing then offer to go on a drive. Usuaully that sealed the deal.

Finding it harder now 2 years later and seems like the actual quality looking girls want a "date" or whatever first
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women in your age range are more than aware of their value these days

a 24 year old woman is at the absolute peak of her market value , if she's attractive she can literally have pretty much whatever she wants if she's smart about it.

Banging dudes in the back of a car at this age isn't exactly a mouth watering offer

The only way you can do it quickly is with horny drunk chicks at clubs
 

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Have you considered going to bars? Or even just NOT offering to drive around and bang someone you've never met from an app online?
Dude obviously. I only offer to drive around because if they agree theyre usually down, and I just don't care enough about most girls to take them on a proper date, unless they actually catch my eye. Also don't have my own place to host so can't rely on that.

But yes I do go to the bars and have met that way as well.
 

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Start by

-Getting out from behind your keyboard

-Shaving, showering, throwing on fresh clothes, freshening your breath

-Approaching gals out in the wild
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Start by

-Getting out from behind your keyboard

-Shaving, showering, throwing on fresh clothes, freshening your breath

-Approaching gals out in the wild
Genuinely no clue why all forums have internet warriors. Got it done before and will get it done but I'm in a forum specifically for questions like this.
 

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Genuinely no clue why all forums have internet warriors. Got it done before and will get it done but I'm in a forum specifically for questions like this.
I'm being serious. Are you out in the sun and fresh air each week more often than you are on Hinge or the like?
 

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I'm being serious. Are you out in the sun and fresh air each week more often than you are on Hinge or the like?
Yes, 6 foot tall, 24, prime looks, bench 315, 10k steps a day outside, making money, know how to speak to woman.
 

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Dude obviously. I only offer to drive around because if they agree theyre usually down, and I just don't care enough about most girls to take them on a proper date, unless they actually catch my eye. Also don't have my own place to host so can't rely on that.

But yes I do go to the bars and have met that way as well.
So it sounds like your problem is that you're lazy.

You don't want to go on dates. You invite girls to go on a drive, where you try to ****. And it sounds like most of this is coming from dating apps.

My guy...grab drinks with a girl late at night on the weekend, then invite yourself over to hers if things are going well.
 

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So it sounds like your problem is that you're lazy.

You don't want to go on dates. You invite girls to go on a drive, where you try to ****. And it sounds like most of this is coming from dating apps.

My guy...grab drinks with a girl late at night on the weekend, then invite yourself over to hers if things are going well.
Yes but that only is really good for friday and saturday. What do you do for weekdays?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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OP if driving was working for you before, maybe alter it. Chat with them a bit longer before the offer, do some comfort-bonding (getting to know you chit chat), and then suggest a cool, romantic lookout spot with a view you can drive to and bring a little wine or booze. Hookup the same way you did before, but with less of a hookup vibe.
 

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Dude obviously. I only offer to drive around because if they agree theyre usually down, and I just don't care enough about most girls to take them on a proper date, unless they actually catch my eye. Also don't have my own place to host so can't rely on that.

But yes I do go to the bars and have met that way as well.
You attract what you are.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OP if driving was working for you before, maybe alter it. Chat with them a bit longer before the offer, do some comfort-bonding (getting to know you chit chat), and then suggest a cool, romantic lookout spot with a view you can drive to and bring a little wine or booze. Hookup the same way you did before, but with less of a hookup vibe.
Well thank you someone with actual advice
 

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Maybe try this approach
funny stuff :D
Had he stammered less + Not offered to worship that one gal's ass, he likely would've been even more successful

His courage already puts him light years ahead of 98% of men

@steeringclear
"Yes, 6 foot tall, 24, prime looks, bench 315, 10k steps a day outside, making money, know how to speak to woman"

You say all of this, yet also admit to mostly going home empty handed, everywhere except Tinder and Hinge. Thus, it stands to reason:

Aspects of your current self-assessment are almost definitely less accurate than The White House's assertion that Iraq possessed nukes, back in '03. I'm banking that you're

-Correct on your height and bench press

-Probably overrating your looks

-Aren't accurately accounting the amount of time you spend out in the fresh air every day(No judgment... MOST of us 1st Worlders are guilty of this)

-Making enough cash to get by, but not exactly flourishing(Most people aren't)

-Speaking to women in RL, yet believe that you're much smoother than you really are

Successfully socializing in the wild and convincing someone online that you're the sh-t are comparable to being a distinguished Air Force PJ in actuality Vs Dressing up as a GI Joe character for the occasional costume party
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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