jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Hi friends, Johnny here.
You know all men aren't made to live the same way nor they have the same nature.
Some men are more feminine by nature, they're oriented towards seduction, sociability, reading emotions and "hints", while others, are naturally more masculine in the most classic sense of the term, they prefer freedom, logic, their own space, stability, rituals, and building a life system that works for them.
This is why, some of us, struggle with women: we're more into men masculine nature.
The other guys you see thriving out there are because they've been gifted with the feminine by nature and are more in tune with what attracts women on a cyclical and constant level, things that go unnoticed or simply superfluous to a masculine, logical man. aka "the game"
For all those on the more masculine side of modern society, we're constantly trying to become something we're not.
That doesn't mean you stop improving.. learn, gain experience, improve your skills.
But You don't betray your character to be accepted.
If you need freedom, own it, don't ask for it.
If you need your space, defend it.
If you don't like drama, don't seek it.
If you want a stable and simple life, build it.
The real challenge is finding people in your life who can respect this way of being, especially in this modern society.
And yes, you will miss out on opportunities. Some women won't understand or try so hard with you but you miss the hints. Some people will tell you you're too stubborn, too independent, or "different"
But hey.. that's okay. You don't have to please everyone.
You have to respect yourself enough not to become someone else just to be chosen.
You should understand that your masculinity, your person, being in the company of others at peace and well with yourself, is much more valuable than having to become something or someone just for the sake of spending time on this earth with people, calling them friends, wife, or family, when they're not, just because you're afraid to make the effort necessary to know yourself, to create a life for yourself, to embrace your masculinity.
Masculinity is freedom, responsibility, consistency, respect, camaraderie, the ability to kindly stand firm without needing to control others.
Be who you are. Improve yourself, of course. But don't distort yourself into the road of "seduction".
To become a seducer and embrace feminine energy and bring it into yourself, you must be aware that you will have to become or act according to something you are not, simply because you want to experience an "emotion." In practice, as a woman, you are on the hunt for emotions, which you can capture by being feminine.
There is simply nothing more beautiful than sex, companionship, and intimacy with a woman, and have you ever asked yourself... have you ever confronted yourself with the fact that you would want to do that thing being 100% masculine, being 100% authentic to yourself, without worrying in the slightest about the outcome?
Nowadays, it might be misleading to think that if you've gotten a woman by behaving like xyz, then all you have to do is do xyz to get others.
There are 10,000 factors: maybe that woman would have f8cked anyone that night, not only you, or your wife would have stayed in a ten year relationship with any man, as long as he kept her company and provided financially.
See? We can't rely on the results of our actions.
We can only rely on the fact that we are behaving in a manner, that makes ourselves feel good, always.
And that is usually knowing your nature andbehave that way, which usually is the masculine way.
The greatest seducers in history have been very effeminate and feminine men, who naturally understood women and game with them. Yet have you ever asked them if they were happy or content with their lives?
We can't know... Just as we can't know whether a life built on masculinity makes you happy or not.
All that matters is that you live your natural self...
So, what type are you?
You know all men aren't made to live the same way nor they have the same nature.
Some men are more feminine by nature, they're oriented towards seduction, sociability, reading emotions and "hints", while others, are naturally more masculine in the most classic sense of the term, they prefer freedom, logic, their own space, stability, rituals, and building a life system that works for them.
This is why, some of us, struggle with women: we're more into men masculine nature.
The other guys you see thriving out there are because they've been gifted with the feminine by nature and are more in tune with what attracts women on a cyclical and constant level, things that go unnoticed or simply superfluous to a masculine, logical man. aka "the game"
For all those on the more masculine side of modern society, we're constantly trying to become something we're not.
That doesn't mean you stop improving.. learn, gain experience, improve your skills.
But You don't betray your character to be accepted.
If you need freedom, own it, don't ask for it.
If you need your space, defend it.
If you don't like drama, don't seek it.
If you want a stable and simple life, build it.
The real challenge is finding people in your life who can respect this way of being, especially in this modern society.
And yes, you will miss out on opportunities. Some women won't understand or try so hard with you but you miss the hints. Some people will tell you you're too stubborn, too independent, or "different"
But hey.. that's okay. You don't have to please everyone.
You have to respect yourself enough not to become someone else just to be chosen.
You should understand that your masculinity, your person, being in the company of others at peace and well with yourself, is much more valuable than having to become something or someone just for the sake of spending time on this earth with people, calling them friends, wife, or family, when they're not, just because you're afraid to make the effort necessary to know yourself, to create a life for yourself, to embrace your masculinity.
Masculinity is freedom, responsibility, consistency, respect, camaraderie, the ability to kindly stand firm without needing to control others.
Be who you are. Improve yourself, of course. But don't distort yourself into the road of "seduction".
To become a seducer and embrace feminine energy and bring it into yourself, you must be aware that you will have to become or act according to something you are not, simply because you want to experience an "emotion." In practice, as a woman, you are on the hunt for emotions, which you can capture by being feminine.
There is simply nothing more beautiful than sex, companionship, and intimacy with a woman, and have you ever asked yourself... have you ever confronted yourself with the fact that you would want to do that thing being 100% masculine, being 100% authentic to yourself, without worrying in the slightest about the outcome?
Nowadays, it might be misleading to think that if you've gotten a woman by behaving like xyz, then all you have to do is do xyz to get others.
There are 10,000 factors: maybe that woman would have f8cked anyone that night, not only you, or your wife would have stayed in a ten year relationship with any man, as long as he kept her company and provided financially.
See? We can't rely on the results of our actions.
We can only rely on the fact that we are behaving in a manner, that makes ourselves feel good, always.
And that is usually knowing your nature andbehave that way, which usually is the masculine way.
The greatest seducers in history have been very effeminate and feminine men, who naturally understood women and game with them. Yet have you ever asked them if they were happy or content with their lives?
We can't know... Just as we can't know whether a life built on masculinity makes you happy or not.
All that matters is that you live your natural self...
So, what type are you?
