I cant find any girl without major redflags

[OngBak]

I cant find a girl without any major redflag, I have talked to around 60+ woman this 7months, and all of them showed major redflags, except one Id consider long term but she has a boyfriend, but I know she isn't happy either in the relationship. Keep in mind I dont approach any woman at what would be considered red flag locations either, like club or parties. But its genuinely hard to find someone you want to be with long-term

 

[obelisk]

When everyone around you is the problem, you need to evaluate yourself as possibly being the problem. Don't ignore red flags but you need to evaluate just what your criteria are.

 

[OngBak]

When everyone around you is the problem, you need to evaluate yourself as possibly being the problem. Don't ignore red flags but you need to evaluate just what your criteria are.

I do it all the time, its part of my job to self-reflect. I have a psych and business degree and work rigourusly with psych topics along with strategy and management, self-reflection is high priority in my findings and research. I also developed a framework for better decision making, so Im hyperaware of the major redflags that many men will miss factually.

Keep in mind major redflags doesnt mean I dont get along with them, I do get along with them, what i mean with major redflags is they are not long term material

 

[tesla8520]

This could give a good POV also on why it's hard to find them

 

[Clockwerk50]

When everyone around you is the problem, you need to evaluate yourself as possibly being the problem. Don't ignore red flags but you need to evaluate just what your criteria are.

OP believes groups of men coordinate to sabotage him, women are secretly attracted to him but hide it, classmates and professors intentionally undermine him, people around him are jealous of his success, looks, and intelligence, and that others will backstab him because they are insecure and envious.

Clearly everyone else is the problem except OP.

 

[FurryFriend]

Bro, you don't have any red flags?

I'd bet many women think coming to this forum and being a Senior Don Juan is a major red flag.

Nobody's perfect man.

 

[Solomon]

I think one thing that contributes to this is that young women are exposed to a lot of things that previous generations of women weren't exposed too i.e. social media, internet, pron, having sex earlier, more bodies, which does a lot of damage

I have found 2 things

1. You find a red flag you are willing to deal with

2 You level up-there is no perfect woman but there are levels to this if you want the best, you gotta be the best. Meaning take a look at yourself mentally, physically, financially, spiritually etc

Also I would look at the type of women you go far and attract, the older you get the more people are jaded and have red flags. It's part of the game unfortunately, but there are some who don't those are the ones you want. If you're only meeting women on dating apps well there is 99% of your problem

 

[The Duke]

I cant find a girl without any major redflag, I have talked to around 60+ woman this 7months, and all of them showed major redflags, except one Id consider long term but she has a boyfriend, but I know she isn't happy either in the relationship. Keep in mind I dont approach any woman at what would be considered red flag locations either, like club or parties. But its genuinely hard to find someone you want to be with long-term

lol people who attend clubs or parties are red flags? please explain. I don't know anyone who doesn't.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

There are literally MILLIONS of dudes in the United States (don't know where you are) who are dating and finding women WITHOUT any red flags.

MILLIONS of people are in happy, healthy relationships.

MILLIONS of people are in happy, healthy marriages.

MILLIONS of people meet and fall in love with perfectly normal people.

This is a YOU problem.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Are you sure you aren't the one with the red flags?

You seem to have some sort of God complex where everyone is beneath you.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

When everyone around you is the problem, you need to evaluate yourself as possibly being the problem. Don't ignore red flags but you need to evaluate just what your criteria are.

It could also be the case that all the woman are fcked. Or both. I don't know (or care) much about most of the posters except the top Gs, so maybe OP is in that camp.

Bro, you don't have any red flags?

I'd bet many women think coming to this forum and being a Senior Don Juan is a major red flag.

Nobody's perfect man.

I would add to this and say from a certain perspective, red flags are normal and actually a good thing if they are minimal.

Having no red flags is the biggest red flag of all because it means she's performative, manipulative, secretive, and a compulsive liar, and you may not find out until you're heavily invested in the relationship.

I don't think any man or woman has zero red flags. If you only spot a couple, count your blessings that she doesn't have have 12. It obviously matters what they are though.

 

[Clockwerk50]

It could also be the case that all the woman are fcked. Or both. I don't know (or care) much about most of the posters except the top Gs, so maybe OP is in that camp.



I would add to this and say from a certain perspective, red flags are normal and actually a good thing if they are minimal.

Having no red flags is the biggest red flag of all because it means she's performative, manipulative, secretive, and a compulsive liar, and you may not find out until you're heavily invested in the relationship.

I don't think any man or woman has zero red flags. If you only spot a couple, count your blessings that she doesn't have have 12. It obviously matters what they are though.

This is OP in a nutshell and how little emotional control he has. You can read it, if you have time for it that is.

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[OngBak]

OP believes groups of men coordinate to sabotage him, women are secretly attracted to him but hide it, classmates and professors intentionally undermine him, people around him are jealous of his success, looks, and intelligence, and that others will backstab him because they are insecure and envious.

Clearly everyone else is the problem except OP.

You are low value when you dont experience that clockwerk50. Look at Celebrities, they get sometimes hate for no reason, SUCCESS is polarizing in a world of insecure People like you

 

[OngBak]

Are you sure you aren't the one with the red flags?

You seem to have some sort of God complex where everyone is beneath you.

Nobody is perfect, where did I say that im above everyone?

 

[OngBak]

This is OP in a nutshell and how little emotional control he has. You can read it, if you have time for it that is.

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Your comment is completely subjective and based on pure assumption, wordsalads, twisting words etc. and you call me emotional? Haha

 

[OngBak]

There are literally MILLIONS of dudes in the United States (don't know where you are) who are dating and finding women WITHOUT any red flags.

MILLIONS of people are in happy, healthy relationships.

MILLIONS of people are in happy, healthy marriages.

MILLIONS of people meet and fall in love with perfectly normal people.

This is a YOU problem.

Thats not how statistics and long term involvement works

 

[OngBak]

It could also be the case that all the woman are fcked. Or both. I don't know (or care) much about most of the posters except the top Gs, so maybe OP is in that camp.



I would add to this and say from a certain perspective, red flags are normal and actually a good thing if they are minimal.

Having no red flags is the biggest red flag of all because it means she's performative, manipulative, secretive, and a compulsive liar, and you may not find out until you're heavily invested in the relationship.

I don't think any man or woman has zero red flags. If you only spot a couple, count your blessings that she doesn't have have 12. It obviously matters what they are though.

I have been in two parts of the world 1. not much of success and second 2. very successful in almost all desirable aspects in life. That's why I also mentioned major red flags. Yet somehow, the guys here assume I'm the red flag.

How does knowing a girl who obsessively stalked me make me the red flag? How does knowing a girl who flirted with me while secretly having a boyfriend make me the red flag? And how does helping a girl through one of the hardest periods of her life supporting her with work, expecting nothing but basic respect, good treatment in return only for her to later try to use me and damage my reputation to make herself look better, make me the red flag? How does supporting a girl, who later thought because I support her she is above me makes me the redflag? Guys I help People, because I want to help, I dont expect anything except being respectful with my good deeds, if they dont I walk away. I dont supplicate to People who dont deserve it, I immediately make my boundaries known, their true face show later

None of those situations say much about my character. They say a lot more about the people involved. Shame on you guys @Clockwerk50 @BackInTheGame78 @taiyuu_otoko lost all the respect for you guys, get your Hormone levels checked

 

[OngBak]

Bro, you don't have any red flags?

I'd bet many women think coming to this forum and being a Senior Don Juan is a major red flag.

Nobody's perfect man.

I do have redflags that could be interpreted that way or as everyone does in one way or other that could be interpreted that way, but I would never consider myself to have major redflags that would question my stability, because as I mentioned earlier self-reflection is very important for me. Im very calm in reallife, I dont drink or smoke, I dont take drugs will never do anything that harms me or anyone. I workout consistently and I also helped many People during their life crisis and still do without expecting anything but appreciation

 

[Clockwerk50]

Your comment is completely subjective and based on pure assumption, wordsalads, twisting words etc. and you call me emotional? Haha

This doesn’t sound very self-reflective Mr. Psychology and Business Degree. I’d expect those fields to teach critical thinking and examining different perspectives. I’d ask for your money back from the school you went to if I were you.

 

[OngBak]

This doesn’t sound very self-reflective Mr. Psychology and Business Degree. I’d expect those fields to teach critical thinking and examining different perspectives. I’d ask for your money back from the school you went to if I were you.

Hahaha you just proved my Point, and now reread everything.