I cant find any girl without major redflags

[OngBak]

I cant find a girl without any major redflag, I have talked to around 60+ woman this 7months, and all of them showed major redflags, except one Id consider long term but she has a boyfriend, but I know she isn't happy either in the relationship. Keep in mind I dont approach any woman at what would be considered red flag locations either, like club or parties. But its genuinely hard to find someone you want to be with long-term

 

[obelisk]

When everyone around you is the problem, you need to evaluate yourself as possibly being the problem. Don't ignore red flags but you need to evaluate just what your criteria are.

 

[OngBak]

When everyone around you is the problem, you need to evaluate yourself as possibly being the problem. Don't ignore red flags but you need to evaluate just what your criteria are.

I do it all the time, its part of my job to self-reflect. I have a psych and business degree and work rigourusly with psych topics along with strategy and management, self-reflection is high priority in my findings and research. I also developed a framework for better decision making, so Im hyperaware of the major redflags that many men will miss factually.

Keep in mind major redflags doesnt mean I dont get along with them, I do get along with them, what i mean with major redflags is they are not long term material

 

[tesla8520]

This could give a good POV also on why it's hard to find them

 

[Clockwerk50]

When everyone around you is the problem, you need to evaluate yourself as possibly being the problem. Don't ignore red flags but you need to evaluate just what your criteria are.

OP believes groups of men coordinate to sabotage him, women are secretly attracted to him but hide it, classmates and professors intentionally undermine him, people around him are jealous of his success, looks, and intelligence, and that others will backstab him because they are insecure and envious.

Clearly everyone else is the problem except OP.