Women dress up every time they go out; to the market, to the store, to the mall, to the DMV with some makeup. For meeting a guy and getting free coffee, they complain having to dress up? So the grocery store where they buy 2% milk has more power than a man trying to connect with her? All the man is asking is dress up the way you would when you go out on any other occasion.
The driving I can understand. She cant drive 30 min and the guy is like 2 min away from the coffee shop. They should meet in the middle.
On another note, let’s say the women are right, they dont do coffee dates. first date should be something good; dinner, Museum, opera, whatever. If the guy did that on a 1st date, the women would make a video saying “you guys are trying way too hard to connect and have sex. Just take it easy, be yourself, get to know us. Simple coffee date would be fine.”
To their point; I had a blind coffee date with a 35 year old commercial actress couple of years ago. I showed up 30 min late and I was dressed putting badly.
She was 35 man, what are you going to do?