How do you cure neediness?

[Gamisch]

Fair enough, I get your point.

I’m not saying massage therapy or AI replaces women. Obviously it doesn’t. My point is just that if a guy is touch-starved, isolated, or under a lot of stress, he can start putting way too much weight on the first woman who gives him attention.

A normal massage once in a while can help take some of that touch-starved edge off. AI/chat can take some of the loneliness edge off too, as long as a guy doesn’t confuse it with real life.

Having women in your life is the better answer. But if a guy isn’t there yet, he still needs something to keep himself from acting desperate when an opportunity actually shows up.

AI is NOT gonna be that.

I'd rather see a prosti before falling in that kinda dark pit. And yes a prosti isnt more than a temporary bandit too. But even a ONS every now and then won't teach a man anything about women( arguably about getting them tho).

The basics remain undefeated; get your money body and funny up and you might get lucky...

 

[corrector]

AI is NOT gonna be that.

I'd rather see a prosti before falling in that kinda dark pit. And yes a prosti isnt more than a temporary bandit too. But even a ONS every now and then won't teach a man anything about women( arguably about getting them tho).

The basics remain undefeated; get your money body and funny up and you might get lucky...

Interesting. This reminds me of this scene in Bladerunner 2049.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Lack of options also is a major one.

When you lack options, every option you have becomes much more important than it should be.

 

[Mike32ct]

You have to accept that you can’t force it. You either “click” or you don’t.

Being needy or clingy is trying to force a connection with a chick that might be weak/marginal or possibly nonexistent.

The other guy who has the chick you like… Most likely, he didn’t try too hard to get her.

 

[Gamisch]

You have to accept that you can’t force it. You either “click” or you don’t.

Being needy or clingy is trying to force a connection with a chick that might be weak/marginal or possibly nonexistent.

The other guy who has the chick you like… Most likely, he didn’t try too hard to get her.

It's hard not to be needy around a stunning woman.

Personally I go by less is more whenever I sense that I get needy.

It's like any other skill we learn; I apply then basics when I feel I like a woman too much;
- dont double text
- let her take the initiative
- be bold but know when to step back
- accept that there will be other bulls in the ring
- its just my turn, soon it will be his turn
- im the prize, she is a byproduct/ testimony of my awesomeness

 

[Bible_Belt]

Get a dog.