"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well this certainly ruffled a few feathers.

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A post this feminist women came up on my feed. The comments are absolutely hilarious.

The pure rage from.womem and the guys virtual signaling I'm not like that, it's disgusting , "I am not part of the problem". Blah blah blah. It's absolutely amazing haha

The crux of is the issue is guys want young , fertile, fit and healthy women, that leans into her femininity, isn't a hoe, is family orientated and wants to be a great wife.

And these women don't like it one bit!!!
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ahh the virtue signaler's.....the beta's.....the white knights.

There are a few rare women in this world like the poster girl above but they aren't pushing an agenda on social media. They tend to be softer spoken, more submissive, and less likely to share their views.
 

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Are there still guys on here who don't want their wives to work? When I first joined this board, there were several married guys saying no wife of theirs would ever work. Not sure if that attitude is still around, I haven't seen it expressed in quite a while.
 

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Are there still guys on here who don't want their wives to work? When I first joined this board, there were several married guys saying no wife of theirs would ever work. Not sure if that attitude is still around, I haven't seen it expressed in quite a while.
I would be cool with it if I was married and she took care of the household stuff and meals, etc...

If she is going to sit around all day and go shopping, out to lunch with friends or taking long afternoon naps and getting nothing done then hell no.
 

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Are there still guys on here who don't want their wives to work? When I first joined this board, there were several married guys saying no wife of theirs would ever work. Not sure if that attitude is still around, I haven't seen it expressed in quite a while.
She will be having three kids. Who else do you expect to look after them rug rats ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I sense that a lot of you guys have been raised in large cities and spent most of your life there.

The type of women like the poster girl above are more common in small midwestern farming/ranching communities. Thats how they are raised in the sticks. The patriarch and conservative values still have a strong hold.

You won't find feminism, lgbtqxyz, liberals, purple hair, and you go girl propaganda like you do in the big cities.
 

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She will be having three kids. Who else do you expect to look after them rug rats ?
Certainly "mother of my child" is a worthy full time pursuit. But a lot of today's parents outsource the child care. Probably one of the problems with the way today's kids are raised. Still, the children leave the nest eventually) would she be "allowed" to get a job then?
 

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A post this feminist women came up on my feed. The comments are absolutely hilarious.

The pure rage from.womem and the guys virtual signaling I'm not like that, it's disgusting , "I am not part of the problem". Blah blah blah. It's absolutely amazing haha

The crux of is the issue is guys want young , fertile, fit and healthy women, that leans into her femininity, isn't a hoe, is family orientated and wants to be a great wife.

And these women don't like it one bit!!!
Notice she's AI generated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

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Really? What makes you think that ?


Unless your referring to the obviously AI generated image and not the poster who posted it lol
Yes the image. My point is it's just a fantasy for red pill incels. Most women will not check all these boxes.
 

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It's probably normal among the Amish and Mendonites, but the girl would be pasty-white and slightly inbred-looking.
... well, they do have a higher birth rate; approximately 6 to 7 kids per a family. I guess they are doing their best to make it normal, bringing it back 60 to 70 years ago. The girl bosses aren't reproducing that much at all and will be extinct in 50 or so years.
 

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I sense that a lot of you guys have been raised in large cities and spent most of your life there.

The type of women like the poster girl above are more common in small midwestern farming/ranching communities. Thats how they are raised in the sticks. The patriarch and conservative values still have a strong hold.

You won't find feminism, lgbtqxyz, liberals, purple hair, and you go girl propaganda like you do in the big cities.
Correct.

My daughter-in-law checks EVERY point in the meme, and she also dresses modestly.

My son met his wife in a small midwestern town in Catholic parochial school. He was 10. She was 9. They started dating at 17 & 16, high school sweethearts & they stayed committed while he was in college (she worked as a preschool teacher). They married at 21 & 20. He is now 23, she is 22. He is a commissioned officer, she is a full time wife/mother who cleans, cooks, bakes, and mothers. They have a six month old and she is expecting again.

They are Catholic and take religion seriously. My son wants a "herd" of kids....8 if possible, and they grew up around big Catholic families who did as they want to do.

So the archetype of the woman in the meme is out there. She is also a pretty girl. My son is her only sexual partner.

BUT....

If the meme really embodies what you want as a man? You have to have the values to find, attract, lead and hold such a relationship.

Solid character
Leadership
Strong faith
Ambition & willingness to be a protector & provider

Very few men here embody the above values. These are not girls chasing playboys. They are after a lifelong legacy.

My daughter-in-law adores my son. She sees him as "the love of my life" and "the man of my dreams".

That's a bigger responsibility than most of the men here are prepared to handle.

If that's what you want? Build yourself to be the kind of man who commands that price & solidify your value system to appear on such a woman's radar screen.
 

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Correct.

My daughter-in-law checks EVERY point in the meme, and she also dresses modestly.

My son met his wife in a small midwestern town in Catholic parochial school. He was 10. She was 9. They started dating at 17 & 16, high school sweethearts & they stayed committed while he was in college (she worked as a preschool teacher). They married at 21 & 20. He is now 23, she is 22. He is a commissioned officer, she is a full time wife/mother who cleans, cooks, bakes, and mothers. They have a six month old and she is expecting again.

They are Catholic and take religion seriously. My son wants a "herd" of kids....8 if possible, and they grew up around big Catholic families who did as they want to do.

So the archetype of the woman in the meme is out there. She is also a pretty girl. My son is her only sexual partner.

BUT....

If the meme really embodies what you want as a man? You have to have the values to find, attract, lead and hold such a relationship.

Solid character
Leadership
Strong faith
Ambition & willingness to be a protector & provider

Very few men here embody the above values. These are not girls chasing playboys. They are after a lifelong legacy.

My daughter-in-law adores my son. She sees him as "the love of my life" and "the man of my dreams".

That's a bigger responsibility than most of the men here are prepared to handle.

If that's what you want? Build yourself to be the kind of man who commands that price & solidify your value system to appear on such a woman's radar screen.
That is good for him. The thing is on sosuave the men who embody such values are not the marrying type. The ones who want to marry and have kids are often stuck in Disney fantasies.

For instance I knew at age 12 I was not going to get tied down young. Nothing wrong with that but I had other plans.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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