"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well this certainly ruffled a few feathers.

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In ONE sense, that real life version of Jax Teller whom The Prom Queen chooses over the accountant HAS established "high value", compared to his (pseudo)competitor:

-He's infinitely more electrifying company

-He's more than capable of handling himself in a conflict, by extension has communicated that he can defend her also

-He's risen up in the world, by becoming President of his MC. We can gripe about how beneficial such organizations are to our society. Fact is though, dude's become The Big Cheese in an organization that's raking in millions/perhaps over a billion per year, in a world filled mostly with wannabes who are desperate for SOMEONE ELSE to come lead THEM

Bringing this back around to the subject of this thread:

The Trad Wife fantasy ignores the fine print of reality... Many, if not most, men stall out pretty early in life, end up being permanent middle managers or less, who's ambition and hobbies don't extend very far beyond binge watching In The Heat Of The Night re-runs and endlessly groaning over all the ways immigrants/The New World Order/Feminists robbed them of their shot at greatness. Thus, most men WILL NOT be able to keep a Trad Wife they snagged in their early 20s. These gals are still human, and no less prone to growing dissatisfied, then trading up than the rest of us are
Do you have an idea why men geT angry with me for pointing this out?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you have an idea why men geT angry with me for pointing this out?
Not sure what exactly you've been pointing out to these fellas you mention, and what aspects of it they're angry with. Be so kind as to provide more specifics
 
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Housewife to whoore or whoore to housewife, everything else is unicorn.
 
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