Mode one questions

[Plinco]

I went out this morning telling myself that I was in no mood to approach. When I got into the gym this morning, I saw a bunch of girls who I'd want to approach. Especially two girls that I initially saw from a distance. I could see their pretty faces and how energetic they were. They were also only partially clothed and these clothes were basically skin tight. I seriously thought about going mode one. These were the kind of girls that I wanted to fvck. I still told myself that I'm not doing any approaches. Halfway through my workout, these two girls kept working out next to me. One of the girls had some acne on her face, and I thought they were probably still in high school, so I just wrote it off there. Halfway through my Muay Thai, one of the girls kept walking past me multiple times and kept glancing at me. I said to myself "fvck it, I'm going to say something to her." I asked her if she's on winter break (I still assumed that she was in high school), then I asked her what school does she go to. She said she goes to UCF. My face lit up (20% because that's the school I went to, 80% because I realized she was over 18). I asked her what's her major, as then I immediately wanted to start hitting on her. She kept walking and looked nervous. She turned to me and smiled and kept walking away as I was slowly walking towards her, her pace was faster than mine as if to run away from me.

Normally I use the line "Hey, I thought you were gorgeous and had to come say hi, what’s your name?” Then I work into a phone number and a coffee date, which I think is something like mode 1.5.

@We_ArE_VeNOM
@SmoothHendrixPS2

This made me ask myself two questions:

1. Have you ever been kicked out, had the police called, been asked to leave, or something along these lines happen to you after doing mode one?
2. How well does mode one work if you are approaching a girl in a group, or with a friend? I've already been c0ckblocked by a girl's friends before. I assume the outcome would be about the same with mode one as well.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Normally I use the line "Hey, I thought you were gorgeous and had to come say hi, what’s your name?” Then I work into a phone number and a coffee date, which I think is something like mode 1.5.

You're not Mode One unless you clearly, boldly, and straightforwardly express your sexual desires with her.

And once you express those desires and she gives you and unfavorable reaction..then no coffee date is necessary, right?

That's the point of Mode One; don't waste time on a date if the chick is being uncooperative to your program.

Whether or not you're Mode 1.5 will depend on what kind of language you use to express these desires, as Mode 1.5 is more so geared towards PG-13 language rather than explicit/X-Rated.

@We_ArE_VeNOM
@SmoothHendrixPS2

This made me ask myself two questions:

1. Have you ever been kicked out, had the police called, been asked to leave, or something along these lines happen to you after doing mode one?

Nah.

I am a strict daygame cold approacher.

No night game. No dating apps. No social circles.

That said, with day game, I don't use Mode One on my approaches, simply because I don't know how a woman will react in public settings..and I don't want to run into any problems of a chick flipping out and bringing unwanted attention to the situation.

My version of Mode One (Mode X), have me expressing my sexual desires over the phone or via text.

I think all 3 versions of Mode One is best served in nightgame situations.

I highly caution against using Mode One in the public domain for day game, to avoid situations like what you're asking about ...UNLESS you're getting positive body language from the woman, or, you feel extremely lucky that day...both of which can happen and depending on how smooth you are, may be able to pull it off (ask me how I've done it ).

But generally speaking, I wouldn't recommend it.

2. How well does mode one work if you are approaching a girl in a group, or with a friend? I've already been c0ckblocked by a girl's friends before. I assume the outcome would be about the same with mode one as well.[/FONT]

If there is one chink in my armor, it is the unwillingness to approach women in groups.

I don't approach women in groups.

Funny, because at work (at the airport), there are at least two TSA agents that I'm trying to get at.

The problem is, both of them are ALWAYS in groups (separate groups)..and I talk to them regularly among their groups..and I have ample opportunity to make a move on them, the problem is; others are always present and I like my targets in isolation.

 

[Sega Genesis]

My version of Mode One (Mode X), have me expressing my sexual desires over the phone or via text.

^^Just so I'm clear @We_ArE_VeNOM and maybe @Plinco and others may be wondering about this as well...

Since you don't do dating/swipe apps, when you meet a chick doing day game while you're out and about, when you see a chick you're attracted to, you'll approach, ask if she's single, if she is ask for her number and then when you call or text, that is when you go Mode X directly telling her you want to f*ck her? Or whatever bold language you use to express your sexual desire?

If this is right, just out of curiosity what is the percentage of women (approx) that respond positively and that you end up actually f*cking? Versus phone sex/sexting?

Absolutely no judgment I promise you. I think it's extremely bold however since your goal is the bang, I can see how it saves time and money spending money on dates that won't end in sex.

That said...

Based on experience, many men might see investing time and money on dates hoping their charm, charisma (game) or the chemistry/energy happening between them might result in SNL even if she was initially resistant.

 

[BPH]

Based on experience, many men might see investing time and money on dates hoping their charm, charisma (game) or the chemistry/energy happening between them might result in SNL even if she was initially resistant.

This.

This is why I don't do Mode One.

 

[Plinco]

Based on experience, many men might see investing time and money on dates hoping their charm, charisma (game) or the chemistry/energy happening between them might result in SNL even if she was initially resistant.

What does SNL stand for besides Saturday Night live?

 

[Sega Genesis]

What does SNL stand for besides Saturday Night live?

LOL that's funny cuz when I first read it on here, I didn't know either and my first thought was Saturday Night Live even though that made no sense!

Anyway...

It means "Same Night Lay."

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

^^Just so I'm clear @We_ArE_VeNOM and maybe @Plinco and others may be wondering about this as well...

Since you don't do dating/swipe apps, when you meet a chick doing day game while you're out and about, when you see a chick you're attracted to, you'll approach, ask if she's single, if she is ask for her number

I no longer ask for her #, but instead give her mine .

and then when you call or text, that is when you go Mode X directly telling her you want to f*ck her? Or whatever bold language you use to express your sexual desire?

Correct. I couldn't have said it better myself.

If this is right, just out of curiosity what is the percentage of women (approx) that respond positively and that you end up actually f*cking? Versus phone sex/sexting?

Great question.

I define "respond positively" by responses from women that aren't adversely harsh, by ways of tone and language used.

In my experiences, almost all women that decline, do so in polite/positive manners, and (believe it or not), some women even thanked me for my honesty and not wasting THEIR time.

Go figure.

But to answer your question, out of my last 100 approaches..

39 women have reached out to me after my initial cold approach...which means 39/100 found me attractive enough to reach out after I gave them my #, when they could have easily not have.

And out of the 39 women, I've managed to smash 6 of them, after my Mode X approach.

Absolutely no judgment I promise you. I think it's extremely bold

Bold is the name of the game .

That said...

Based on experience, many men might see investing time and money on dates hoping their charm, charisma (game) or the chemistry/energy happening between them might result in SNL even if she was initially resistant.

There is truth to this^.

Men that do this^, are exhibiting Mode 2 behavior.

Sure, you can get puzzy with Mode 2.

In fact, that's how most of these guys on here (and in general), get their lays.

There are a series of problems with Mode 2 behaviors, particularly in daygame scenarios when there just isn't enough time to build such rapport.

Or, generally speaking, Mode 2 (another way of saying indirect), you put yourself more at risk of wasting time and money...and are gambling with both.

I focus on setting myself up, for a woman that will want to jump my bone from the moment she look at me, rather than 2-3 dates in.

If it will take me extended time/money to smash, I don't want it..when other guys will gladly sacrifice those things to get it.

That's what separates the men from the boys, in my opinion.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

"Nice shoes, wanna fvck?" works every time

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

"Nice shoes, wanna fvck?" works every time

Um, no.

Usually, the ignorant people like yourself who criticizes Mode One, their critique is mainly of Mode One Hardcore, where you let a woman know your sexual desires between 10-90 seconds of meeting her, and you use explicit X-Rated language to do so.

That is the example you gave, and tried to clown.

But the other versions of Mode One (Standard, and Mode 1.5) aren't that explicit..and a man can let a woman know his sexual desires without using such language.

Here, hold this L.

 

[Divorced w 3]

^^Just so I'm clear @We_ArE_VeNOM and maybe @Plinco and others may be wondering about this as well...

Since you don't do dating/swipe apps, when you meet a chick doing day game while you're out and about, when you see a chick you're attracted to, you'll approach, ask if she's single, if she is ask for her number and then when you call or text, that is when you go Mode X directly telling her you want to f*ck her? Or whatever bold language you use to express your sexual desire?

If this is right, just out of curiosity what is the percentage of women (approx) that respond positively and that you end up actually f*cking? Versus phone sex/sexting?

Absolutely no judgment I promise you. I think it's extremely bold however since your goal is the bang, I can see how it saves time and money spending money on dates that won't end in sex.

That said...

Based on experience, many men might see investing time and money on dates hoping their charm, charisma (game) or the chemistry/energy happening between them might result in SNL even if she was initially resistant.

ARC wrote about going Mode One at a grocery store mid day

 

[Divorced w 3]

This.

This is why I don't do Mode One.

Right - you just go harass the same chicks at your local college bar until they call you a date rapist.

 

[BPH]

Right - you just go harass the same chicks at your local college bar until they call you a date rapist.

You need to spend more time with your therapist.

 

[Divorced w 3]

You need to spend more time with your therapist.

Why do you insert yourself into conversations and then go cry about it that you’re some sort of victim? Also why would I need a therapist when you’re the one stalking women at the same college hangout night after night and getting blasted both in person by the women there and also on websites warning chicks of potential date rapists? This is what you want to teach men to do? This is how you seduce?

 

[sevbucmash]

I no longer ask for her #, but instead give her mine .

Do they call you?

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Do they call you?

39 women have reached out to me after my initial cold approach...which means 39/100 found me attractive enough to reach out after I gave them my #, when they could have easily not have.

 

[BPH]

Why do you insert yourself into conversations and then go cry about it that you’re some sort of victim? Also why would I need a therapist when you’re the one stalking women at the same college hangout night after night and getting blasted both in person by the women there and also on websites warning chicks of potential date rapists? This is what you want to teach men to do? This is how you seduce?

I should not make you this mad.

I commented on a thread agreeing with someone else, and you decided to go out of your way to make a personal attack.

You've admitted this in a previous thread:

It’s taken time, therapy, and medication trial and error for bipolar behavior as well, to get comfortable on lots of issues

Maybe you should take a moment, process your feelings and how you're reacting here, and step away from the f***ing computer for a bit.

 

[Divorced w 3]

I should not make you this mad.

I commented on a thread agreeing with someone else, and you decided to go out of your way to make a personal attack.

You've admitted this in a previous thread:


Maybe you should take a moment, process your feelings and how you're reacting here, and step away from the f***ing computer for a bit.

You’re the one making this personal, deflecting as always……And in spite of all my shortcomings, I’ve never been accused of being a rapist in person or let alone on a red flag website. So yeah, im bipolar…what’s your excuse?

 

[BPH]

So yeah, im bipolar…And in spite of all my shortcomings, I’ve never been accused of being a rapist in person or let alone on a red flag website.

so what’s your excuse Freddy mercury?

You really should just turn off the computer, go outside, and take a breath.

 

[Divorced w 3]

You really should just turn off the computer, go outside, and take a breath.

I think the people deserve to know why you keep going out of your way and crapping on a verified technique when you’ve been credibly accused of being a sexual predator … it’s not personal homie it’s just facts

 

[BPH]

I think the people deserve to know why you keep going out of your way and crapping on a verified technique when you’ve been credibly accused of being a sexual predator … it’s not personal homie it’s just facts

You mustn't have gotten what you wanted for Christmas this year, huh?

Credibly accused...you can read, can't you? Go back into that thread and read what happened.

Slept with a girl, who I spent the night with and kissed me goodbye, who later followed me on Instagram, "loved" my messages, and didn't have a problem with me until she read a scathing review of me on the Tea app - which, by the way, was almost certainly written by my sister, who is almost as mental as you.

Meanwhile, you have been both physically and verbally abusive to your ex because you can't seem to control your emotions - something that I, and several others, tried to help you with in the no-contact thread, which is certainly shining through right now. I think that is a bigger issue, especially when you're already a divorcee who seems prone to getting mad about what OTHER people are doing wrong.

As for my personal opinions on Mode One, I simply agreed with what somebody else said. I wrote 9 words, 2 sentences...and look at you, hunting me down because the other thread got locked before you were done having your fit.

You've accused me of being a sexual predator and insinuated that I must be gay because of my profile picture (which is me, btw, sorry I don't spend all day on the internet coming up with new profile pictures like your old baseball player, criminal mugshot, gorilla, and now Spumoni Gardens pictures), all less than 2 months after receiving support from multiple members of this forum, including myself, to help you overcome a problem YOU created.

You have problems. You seem to be aware of them, but you do nothing about them. Seriously, just step away from the computer.