Everything Just.. Bores me Now?

[nicksaiz65]

He’s in his 20’s. When I was in my 20’s. All I cared about was getting laid. And as long as I was getting laid, I was never posting on seduction forums and I definitely was not complaining about being bored. Like I said in my previous post, I feel like he’s chasing after ego validation. He wants us to think that he has this great life. Guys in their 20’s making bank and getting laid are busy making bank and getting laid.

Their LAST concern is sosuave validation. In fact they don’t even have the attention span to post anything, let alone post about making money and getting laid and being bored.

@nicksaiz65 I would suggest you be more authentic.

Because some of us actually went through what you are claiming. And I don’t ever remember being bored when I had raging hormones and knowing there’s countless amounts of women I could have fun with.

In your 20’s, getting money and getting laid should be the most exciting time of your life. If anything, I should have been the author of this post. “I’m 41 and making bank and getting laid and I am bored out of my mind.” That would make way more sense than a kid posting this.

Don’t want to be the bad guy but there is no such thing as a guy in his 20’s who’s making money and getting laid and is somehow “bored”. Even your 20 year old hormones betray your post.

Let me clarify, I could’ve worded this better, “bored with work”*

The game sessions are the high point of my week, but the job to get to them, man lol. That’s why I keep saying “I guess this is just adulting” lol. But you can’t have the game part without the work part, so…

 

[Plinco]

Kinda venting, kinda thinking? So I’ll try to keep this brief but, this is an issue I’ve noticed going on in my life. I just find literally everything.. super boring now?

Software engineer job? Same old ish, ho hum.

Side hustle, restaurant job? Meh. Super repetitive.

I shouldn’t be complaining. I work remote at my day job, and since I’m a one person team I don’t have people chasing me around. My side hustle is not bad at all and is just up the road.

Meal prep and gym? Feel like obligations on the same level as cleaning my house. I recognize that they need to be done, so I still do them, but they still feel like obligations. Even cooking, which I used to get hyped about, feels a bit droll & like an obligation as well.

At this point, game and pickup is the only “exciting” thing that I look forward to.

Am I tripping or is this just adulting? My whole philosophy has been “work so that you can live the lifestyle you want” (which is pickup for me.)

Maybe it’s just adulting. Idk why I’m feeling this intense low level boredom throughout the day. I ignored it before but it’s getting worse and worse and worse. There’s so much more I need to learn and do in the game, and with my fitness. I’m making progress. I have so much farther I need to go. So I SHOULDN’T feel this way, yknow?

Wanted to reach out and get ideas. Maybe I just need to be told to “suck it up.”

I do realize that if you want to do the fun “game” part you have to pay the price & do the boring work & life part.

It sounds like you need something to challenge yourself with. What would you do if money and women were no object to you? What's your life mission and vision?

 

[Clockwerk50]

Take a master's course or a university course. That will kill your boredom quickly, especially during final exams.

 

[nicksaiz65]

It sounds like you need something to challenge yourself with. What would you do if money and women were no object to you? What's your life mission and vision?

Tbh my main goals have been cold approach, improving my financial situation, & fitness. I used to pursue music as a goal but I haven’t done it in quite a while.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Take a master's course or a university course. That will kill your boredom quickly, especially during final exams.

I have a Bachelors in Computer Science.

 

[Plinco]

Tbh my main goals have been cold approach, improving my financial situation, & fitness. I used to pursue music as a goal but I haven’t done it in quite a while.

I'm asking your life vision and mission. Where do you want to be in ten years from now?

 

[coldapproach]

I'm asking your life vision and mission. Where do you want to be in ten years from now?

 

[nicksaiz65]

I'm asking your life vision and mission. Where do you want to be in ten years from now?

Being dead serious here.. being debt free, having a great physique, not having to work a bunch, & do pickup. Other than that, just free time to do whatever. That’s the pragmatic answer. I haven’t thought much further ahead than that haha.

 

[BadBoy89]

I think it was BeExcellent who said “people who get bored are boring people”.

 

[nicksaiz65]

I think it was BeExcellent who said “people who get bored are boring people”.

Yeah, I’m realizing the source of this is basically me being like “I’m bored with my job” lol. But it pays well, so it is what it is I guess. I wouldn’t want a super rigid or stressful job.

 

[Gamisch]

I've been homeless, down and out do you dont have to..

Be grateful. Every day. You are " iust" three events away from sleeping in that tent( no job, rent gets higher, and a depression that cripple you). Look brother, life isn't supposed t0 be fun all the time.life is about surviving.

Better be grateful and realise that Izf you would fall down ,you'd need like 3 years to get where you are now again.

You're living a top life.it won't get any better. Incrementally? It might. But even than youll be working and grinding constantly. Trust me.

Wake up and be grateful you're healthy, sane, got some money, get some box now and then, you eat and drink every day, roof above your head . Thanks God every damn day from now on.

 

[Plinco]

Being dead serious here.. being debt free, having a great physique, not having to work a bunch, & do pickup. Other than that, just free time to do whatever. That’s the pragmatic answer. I haven’t thought much further ahead than that haha.

I appreciate the better response. Since I see "and do whatever," that tells me you should do some writing about yourself and clear up who you are. I see that you've been picking up some ladies recently. The better understanding you have with yourself and the more specific your libido will be.

 

[inquisitor]

Yeah, man. Suck it up.

I know for certain that I live a much worse life than you, yet you are able to convince me that I somehow live better.

Is life, without wonder, even a life at all?

 

[coldapproach]

Yeah, man. Suck it up.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I have a Bachelors in Computer Science.

I get that, but like I said, adding something mentally challenging can break the monotony, and long-term boredom usually happens when your mind isn’t being pushed enough.

I hope you don’t take this the wrong way, but your responses make you come across as a bit unmotivated or lazy.

 

[coldapproach]

How to be rich?

 

[nicksaiz65]

Yeah, man. Suck it up.

I know for certain that I live a much worse life than you, yet you are able to convince me that I somehow live better.

Is life, without wonder, even a life at all?

Yeah, that’s life. I think my work was just starting to become a drag.

 

[nicksaiz65]

I get that, but like I said, adding something mentally challenging can break the monotony, and long-term boredom usually happens when your mind isn’t being pushed enough.

I hope you don’t take this the wrong way, but your responses make you come across as a bit unmotivated or lazy.

Yeah, I’m motivated in game & fitness for sure, I think my job was just becoming a bit droll lol.

In a couple years, maybe I could jump to being a developer again to get a challenge & more money. But right now I want to hug my job, with the market and such.

I can always learn new skills on a course. But I have no desire to go back to school(more loans, more debt, more payments, trapped.) ChatGPT is a great resource for learning too

 

[Gamisch]

We have no choice. Literally isn't supposed to be "fun all the time". In any other era we would've already been though a couple of wars here and there, divorced a few times, bankrupted , multiple kids who ALWAYS bring their own unique set of problems ecect ect

Now we have a relatively peaceful time where being single isn't ridiculed as much, and yet people are depressed because they can't keep up with the Joneses.

Be glad you are healthy GOT A STEADY JOB, a roof above your head , a meal everyday.

The more broke you are the more existing life and your (forced) choices will become.

Remember that

 

[nicksaiz65]

We have no choice. Literally isn't supposed to be "fun all the time". In any other era we would've already been though a couple of wars here and there, divorced a few times, bankrupted , multiple kids who ALWAYS bring their own unique set of problems ecect ect

Now we have a relatively peaceful time where being single isn't ridiculed as much, and yet people are depressed because they can't keep up with the Joneses.

Be glad you are healthy GOT A STEADY JOB, a roof above your head , a meal everyday.

The more broke you are the more existing life and your (forced) choices will become.

Remember that

That’s a great mindset tbh. It’s not supposed to be fun all the time.