Girl flying into town - pay for hotel?

[inquisitor]

If she's paying for her flight, does that cover going towards you and back at Costa Rica? I worry she might just end up having you pay for her flight back, which appears to be the final nail on the coffin here.

If ever you pursue this, make sure to f*ck her good, or you'll have to pay for everything she wants you to.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

If she's paying for her flight, does that cover going towards you and back at Costa Rica? I worry she might just end up having you pay for her flight back, which appears to be the final nail on the coffin here.

If ever you pursue this, make sure to f*ck her good, or you'll have to pay for everything she wants you to.

Most flights are round trip. It would be kinda crazy to book one way twice as it's far more expensive unless you do some wild juggling acts.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Sexting is a good litmus test in this scenario OP. Is she cool with it?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Sexting is a good litmus test in this scenario OP. Is she cool with it?

I've found it's really not. Plenty of women will sext as a fantasy thing and then never be willing to meet in person. Near meaningless, IMO and if it is, most times will actually prevent you from meeting a woman.

If a woman wants to meet up with you, no sexting will be needed. But sexting can 100% turn a meetup into a flake.

In most cases with a woman you've never banged it's a net negative.

 

[Vanderdonck]

I had plans to travel to another city already.

I'm not looking for this to turn into a relationship. I'm just looking for a fun few days.

If it's a good time and she'd want to visit again, she'd be staying with me no questions asked.

If she wanted to simply use me to pay for a hotel in NYC, then I don't see why she would have reached out to me out of the blue and asked me to fly to her hometown a few weeks prior to this.

And no, we haven't slept together yet. Met her one night while I was vising Costa Rica on a bachelor party. Ended up with a different girl that night but got her number.

Figured why not invite her. If she's down and comes, it could be fun and a great story. If not, no sweat off my back, I have no investment in this. If she comes and it sucks, well, you can't win if you don't play

If money is no object then it's fine. If this will set you back obviously it's a risk. If she dodges you while in town or denies the P you just take the L and move on, no complaints.

All up to you and what you're comfortable with spending.

 

[Divorced w 3]

This idea about money being no object is bad thinking.

Money is an object because it signifies something.

It signifies he is a SIMP

you can’t spend it OP

May as well shoot a bat signal up: I don’t know you but I have no other options

I mean this politely

 

[Sega Genesis]

If she's down and comes, it could be fun and a great story. If not, no sweat off my back, I have no investment in this.

If you pay for her hotel, then you are investing (your hard earned money). This has significance for a woman so if all you want is a 'good time' (i.e to bang) then be careful how you spend your money.

If she wanted to simply use me to pay for a hotel in NYC, then I don't see why she would have reached out to me out of the blue and asked me to fly to her hometown a few weeks prior to this.

I assume if you did this^^ you'd be paying for your own flight and hotel? Or since she invited you, she would she be paying for your hotel like she asked you to do if she flew to you?

Hopefully you get my point here.

we haven't slept together yet. Met her one night while I was vising Costa Rica on a bachelor party. Ended up with a different girl that night....

What happened with this girl?