Actions > words

[Divorced w 3]

Just an old fashioned 101 level thought … text / phone silence that is met with nearly instantaneous reaction is worth more than any words may be worth, so for example someone writes you back quickly and then says sure we can chat about ‘Wednesday’ is playing it coy but then you wait over a day to even acknowledge that and you say ‘bowling 7:30 Wednesday’ and that person says they’re busy with something, so you shoot back ‘Thursday, 7:30?’ And then again, within a couple minutes they get right back to you… and then you say ‘awesome see you then’ and back into silence … the hard to get thing are tests, the rapid responses are the truth

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Not being coy > being coy

Jtext / phone silence that is met with nearly instantaneous reaction is worth more than any words may be worth,

This is an indication of trying to control the frame imo. The silence is to stop you from trying to game them, the response is a "reward" for you ceasing trying to game them in their view. A player who wants the playing field to themselves...

 

[Divorced w 3]

Not being coy > being coy


This is an indication of trying to control the frame imo. The silence is to stop you from trying to game them, the response is a "reward" for you ceasing trying to game them in their view. A player who wants the playing field to themselves...

No doubt. Trying to get power dynamics on their side. Yet the instant response showed their hand.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

No doubt. Trying to get power dynamics on their side. Yet the instant response showed their hand.

Yes, the hand being she's a lukewarm lead or hot-and-cold lead, versus being a warm or hot lead.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Yes, the hand being she's a lukewarm lead or hot-and-cold lead, versus being a warm or hot lead.

No doubt. But it’s a date on the books nonetheless. Anti dump said; women who want to go out with you make it easy. Taking 7;30pm off their calendar for Thursday made it easy to see her.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I put no stock into anything until after you fvck them.

Sometimes that isn't even worth anything these days.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

No doubt. But it’s a date on the books nonetheless. Anti dump said; women who want to go out with you make it easy. Taking 7;30pm off their calendar for Thursday made it easy to see her.

Are you going to dress like Jesus from the Big Lebowski?

 

[sevbucmash]

Don Juan Bible

 

[Divorced w 3]

Are you going to dress like Jesus from the Big Lebowski?

Yeah I may get a White Russian - I did on a date in college

 

[Solomon]

Just an old fashioned 101 level thought … text / phone silence that is met with nearly instantaneous reaction is worth more than any words may be worth, so for example someone writes you back quickly and then says sure we can chat about ‘Wednesday’ is playing it coy but then you wait over a day to even acknowledge that and you say ‘bowling 7:30 Wednesday’ and that person says they’re busy with something, so you shoot back ‘Thursday, 7:30?’ And then again, within a couple minutes they get right back to you… and then you say ‘awesome see you then’ and back into silence … the hard to get thing are tests, the rapid responses are the truth

Totally agree that's why texting/calls or even girls sending nudes doesn't mean stuff, the real begins when you're face to face hanging out. The most valuable thing a woman can give a man is her time. Women do not want to waste their time with men they do not fancy just a basic 101.

I put no stock into anything until after you fvck them.

Sometimes that isn't even worth anything these days.

I remember in my 20s (20 years ago) when you had sex with a woman twice, they fell in love, now a woman will meet you of a dating app will lick your scrotum like a pornstar, ask you to choke her, and swallow your whole load then ghost you....crazy how times have changed

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Totally agree that's why texting/calls or even girls sending nudes doesn't mean stuff, the real begins when you're face to face hanging out. The most valuable thing a woman can give a man is her time. Women do not want to waste their time with men they do not fancy just a basic 101.



I remember in my 20s (20 years ago) when you had sex with a woman twice, they fell in love, now a woman will meet you of a dating app will lick your scrotum like a pornstar, ask you to choke her, and swallow your whole load then ghost you....crazy how times have changed

And sometimes let you fvck her in the ass and then swallow and suck out the last drop and ghost you...

I guess they make quick decisions that they want to fvck but don't think it's a good long term fit.

 

[pipeman84]

And sometimes let you fvck her in the ass and then swallow and suck out the last drop and ghost you...

I guess they make quick decisions that they want to fvck but don't think it's a good long term fit.

I don't think the kind of woman you're describing is capable of thinking long term.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I don't think the kind of woman you're describing is capable of thinking long term.

Maybe you just don't know how to bring that side out of them

 

[darksprezzatura]

I wrote a bit about strategies today which can be useful to you op