“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I wasn't going to expose this guy...

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In my Miami recommendations thread, I mentioned running into a "PUA guru" type guy who I thought was a bit of a cornball, but didn't want to put him on blast.

We had a short conversation via Instagram DMs, and I no longer feel bad about putting his ineptitude out there. Now, I don't think I'm some unicorn who has all the answers to everybody's girl problems - but these are the kinds of guys acting like they do.

The screenshots were too big to post individually, so here's the link to that conversation:
 

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Yo @BPH might want to get your name out of there
 

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Never heard of him but sounds like a lot of hot air. He doesn't sound like he should offer "mental health" services. His IG looks creepy AF too. Presentation matters. Bottom line anyone who has to brag that much or put another guy down to get his business is just another huckster.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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lol, is that the dude? Literally from just watching him in that vid for 2 seconds, I know he's not stealing ANYBODYS' girl! lol
The 'industry' is hilarious to me!! In general, the people doing coaching and calling themselves 'pro PUA's' etc are literally worse and weirder than the 'average' guy on the street by quite some way! Actual odd balls. Cracks me up. It's 'the blind leading the blind' but on steroids!

why does he have paid security? do people know who is is?!
 
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lol, is that the dude? Literally from just watching him in that vid for 2 seconds, I know he's not stealing ANYBODYS' girl! lol
The 'industry' is hilarious to me!! In general, the people doing coaching and calling themselves 'pro PUA's' etc are literally worse and weirder than the 'average' guy on the street by quite some way! Actual odd balls. Cracks me up. It's 'the blind leading the blind' but on steroids!
There is a lot of weird people out there lol
 

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ps - BHP, if I was you, i'd have definitely not 'bit' at all but would have also offered HIM coaching (after rejecting his offer) in a completely non confrontational way. Would have been funny
 

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Yo @BPH might want to get your name out of there
It's ok, I use my name in my coaching, so anybody who clicks my signature link would've seen that.

ps - BHP, if I was you, i'd have definitely not 'bit' at all but would have also offered HIM coaching (after rejecting his offer) in a completely non confrontational way. Would have been funny
I was trying to politely decline his offer before he started talking trash.
 

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So, arminsocialmatrix aka Armin Ar is fake!

Let’s discuss struggle. The real struggle: life.


Whether it’s personally how you grew up or the struggle we are now surrounded in and trying to adjust to. Struggle is something everyone can relate to and being open about it will help you move in a forward motion towards the things you want in life.

I’ve personally had a very interesting life to say the least. Born in Tehran, Iran and raised in the States; I’ve had a very complicated childhood. This alone had made socializing 10x harder than it should have been for me.

Having a B.S. in Psychology and Cognition and a Software Engineering Certification made it easier to effectively communicate with a broad range of different personalities. Also, working as a Residential Counselor with aggressive adolescents and adults helped me in being empathetic to all walks of life. In the distant future, I will be pursuing a Transactional Analysis Certification for Therapy and opening my own practice.

Being able to analyze and act accordingly to a wide range of situations takes experience and
a skill which can be acquired using the right system and key tools. This is something that is taken seriously in my coaching programs. This isn’t your ordinary “dating/pickup” or life advice kind of program. This is a raw and authentic program without any sleazy

gimmicks and pickup lines. My true goal is to help you succeed in life and it is what I am passionate about.

What took me 20+ years to master can be yours in a simplified step-by-step process which can easily shed off 10+ years of you doing it all on your own; struggling like I did to grasp the how.

I want to help men start their journey into self-love and share their love with their romantic partner(s) intimately and intellectually. I want those that are willing, to succeed and thrive in the life they lead.

And that’s how Social Matrix was born. I would love for you to allow me help guide you.
 
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