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From her site:
It's OVER for CasualDiningCels.
I can only imagine how many men are sending dikpics to her via her website.
Catalano is the last nameI can only imagine how many men are sending dikpics to her via her website.
She's a bit rough to look at.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
The Bradd Pitt/Drake analogy has to die already, I get it I get it but let's be realastic 90% of men will never be Brad Pitt, whether it's divine level looks or money lot of men just won't have the sauce. I know it's a mindset but most men just don't have the options like that, hence they allow themselves to get cucked!, unless you glow up and move to some shythole city or country(basically where you're the big fish in a small pond)where you're like that one dating coach with the red beard. You guys still spouting 2010 rhetoric, when you have women who are 5's now cucking their husbands. The only time I've seen the Brad Pitt analogy work is with guys who were ridiculously handsome. I'm talking about women paying their rent and paying to have their cars fix. How many guys on sosuave can say they have had a woman pay their rent? The best I ever got was an Armani Code Black lmfao.
I agree, it’s often exaggerated and used out of context. My point was that women can sense weak and desperate men and take advantage of them if given the chance. A better example might be meeting a teacher for the first time in class. Some teachers present such a strong presence that the class knows not to mess with them, while others come across as weak, and the class tests their limits to see what they can get away with. Women do the same thing with men. If you’re getting played by women in 2025, that’s on you, lol. Personally, I’ve never experienced what OP is talking about, but if it did happen, I’d just walk away. That said, I know plenty of beta males who deal with this regularly because their presence is as unstable as rotten wood, and they’re desperate as hell.
Women often show interest in men they value highly, especially when they feel such men are rare. I've had women pay for my plane tickets, truck accessories, and other things because they saw me as someone special. I'm not a stereotypical "Chad," but I do think I'm fun to be around and offer the emotional excitement they enjoy. The red pill turns men into bitter angry robots and completely misunderstands the importance of being likeable and fun to be around.
I wonder if their issue with going out for drinks is that "drinks = sex" in their minds. It used to be saying in the pickup community, "dinner = sleep, drinks = sex". So maybe they're thinking you're just out for one thing (maybe you are). Now if they are similarly unhappy with a coffee date, maybe they're trying to get a free dinner. Coffee dates should be good for everybody, because it's a small time investment, and if you don't like each other, you can eject.
I think one of the big things driving dinner dates again is these pseudo-female dating coaches on social media telling women that coffee dates are low effort and cheap. I think coffee dates are great in the sense of saving money and to see if you want to see a person again. I'm not agaisnt them and have done a couple coffee dates myself this year alone. I Personally don't have a problem with how a man spends his money on a first date(yes, including dinner dates) but if a woman tries to dictate what we do, it's a no-no for me. The only women who have done that are similar to OP's experience, turned out they were GDs. But in my experience, luckily, it's constrained.
I know a few situations where the guy and the girl are using each other.
Maybe she was hungry? You could have asked if she wanted to go Dutch.
"Each other, if you play your cards right" with a smirk
Did you pay or did you just say "nope"
The question is not whether you can but whether you should.
I remember saying something like, "We'll see." In the end, we grabbed a few more drinks, I took her back to my place, we spent the night together, and never talked again.
I saw an increasing trend, especially with 30 and above women, in terms of wanting to see putting effort
