When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
again, you're talking way out of your element. i get calls constantly, about relocating. and by relocating i mean changing firms and still sitting in the same chair i am now, in my bedroom, unshaven, in mesh shorts. i could get a 1.5 mil + paycheck, today, if i wanted to uproot my business and go. it's not an 'employers market.' there are always pockets that are good, and pockets that are struggling. you really should stop posting.
In most cases, employers don't need to pay relocation costs in bigger USA cities if they want someone physically present for that line of work. They can find what they need in the local labor market.
This is true.
Wait, in your original post you said you and your SO, so is the 50K coming from you, or the employer?
Not every job is a basic desk job that just needs someone to fill a seat, and RTO isn't practical for every employee. Maybe the employer is actually not insane and recognizes the value of a cost-benefit analysis, balancing remote roles with those in the office.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Some roles involve travel, working in territories beyond HQ, or requiring specialized experience that necessitates hiring from outside the local talent pool, often leading to high relocation costs for new hires.
My first-hand experience is different. At my company, accounts payable and SAP data master tasks are handled in India, and our IT service desk is outsourced to the Philippines.
You’re first hand experience =/= the entirety of the United States or world economy
If your job can easily replaced by an Indian or AI then you are going to be replaced whether you are remote or in an office.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your whole original post was about your first-hand experience, and I quote: “I get calls constantly, about relocating… I could get a 1.5 mil + paycheck, today, if I wanted to uproot my business and go.”
Because you made the conclusive statement to someone looking for advice, that its an employer’s market, because you work in a shyt industry, and you contextualized your garbage career where you make peanuts into the entirety of knowledge, as usual
I gave my advice based on what the OP should do, and I was participating in a conversation about working in the office and the incentive for an employee to comply with what the employer wants. I also explained why compliance makes sense in a loose employer’s market.
In my opinion, this applies to almost every white-collar job. If employees don’t need to be on-site or visiting customer locations, the work can be done from anywhere in the world.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You said it’s an employers market. You got proven wrong. You cannot gaslight a long winded answer out of it.
No, I didn’t, and I didn’t gaslight anyone. Sounds like a bit of projection on your part.
You’re a proven liar, and nobody should listen to you in any regard.
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That’s a pretty strong accusation. How am I a liar?
Yes, I did say that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.