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European guys: Is the refugee crisis really impacting Game in Eastern Europe too now?

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8:48 In other words, these Spaniards who've "Had enough, and are now responding with violence"(I.E. Assaulting anyone who so much as LOOKS as if they might belong to the demographic said Spaniards hold responsible for life not panning out the way they prefer it would)are now behaving just like those dastardly foreigners(Folks who assault random natives, as a means of soothing their personal frustrations)they pretend to hold the moral high ground over

Always a relief to see that our commitment to due process and justice for one and all remains foremost among our priorities, while we vehemently reject lapsing into mob mentality and cultivating an insatiable hard-on for vendetta
TBH, the alternative is they end up like France and the French did. Have you seen how bad cities like Marseille, Lyon, Nantes, and even a lot of Paris are? I went to Marseille and it is scarier than most Americans cities I have been to. And yeah, it was the same demographic that causes trouble in most of France causing troubles there too. I was told by locals that women, especially White women, do not go out after dark in that city. However, there were barely any Whites left from what I saw.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Eastern Europeans couldn't join the EU fast enough when the old Comn Bloc fell apart in the late 80's/early 90's. They looked up to Western Europe and wanted to emulate the West in every way. Little did they know that a couple of decades later, "European integration" would mean swarms of sexually frustrated Arabs, Turks and Africans - by now citizens of France, Germany, UK and other Western European countries - would be knocking on their gates like some modern day Hunnic Horde.
I have to call 2020s the Great Shift in some ways. It may be more mainstream by 2030, who knows? It used to be before the 2010s that Western Europe and its countries were the hallmark of civilization. Safe, efficient, advanced, progressive, and the leaders of culture in the world. The Paris, The Londons, and the Milans of the world were the envy of the world itself.

Then at some point, I think it is due to social media, people saw the real side of it.

For me personally, my trip to France really opened my eyes. I have never been to a European country where I saw less White people than minorities and the Whites themselves were just purely on edge. They seemed uncomfortable and almost scared in their own cities. I don't even see this from Whites in cities like Atlanta, New Orleans, and Detroit but I saw it in the French cities. Meanwhile, the Arabs and Middle Eastern guys acted with some sort of impunity. I saw one in Marseille slap an old French woman in front of her husband and son!

If that dude did that to a White guy in a New Orleans, he'd have the second amendment between his eyes.

Heck, if he did that in Eastern Europe, some Mob Boss or violent Slavic dude would have done him worst than the Mongols did the Iraqis.
 

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Marseille & Nantes are notoriously bad and already have had a terrible reputation well before the 2020s. No offense man, but I don't think you did your research well with this French trip and just picked cities out of convenience. I went to Normandy, Brittany, Grand Est, Paris, and the Loire Valley and experienced the exact opposite of what you experienced. Does France bad areas, yes, but I found the whole French negative stereotypes to be completely overblown.

With Eastern Europe, I was just in Poland and Lithuania and good luck trying to game women there if you aren't Polish or Lithuanian because you will stick out there in akin to being in West Virginia/Appalachian America type of way. Outside the town centers, you see all those Soviet bloc housing and wooden rural shacks. Those Eastern Europeans look rough and look like they would pull out a knife on you if you accidentally stepped on their shoes. I was on a train in Poland and two people stabbed each other over a spot in the train. Those are definitely places where you do not want to disturb the peace especially if you aren't one of them and trying to hit on some insecure guy's woman. If you stay in the touristy areas then you should be fine but be careful if you try and leave those spots because a lot of Eastern Europe isn't accustomed for tourism. Poland is high booty and thinks they are central European and not eastern European which is complete BS. Go outside the fancy tourist areas and it looks more like Moldova and Ukraine than Germany and Czechia.

Now, if I looked Muslim, Indian, or African I would definitely not fvck around in non-touristy parts of Eastern Europe. I can even see White Americans feeling scared there because they are distinguishable from the locals. Again, Tourist areas are completely safe for everyone, but once you start venturing outside it then play with caution. These people have lives too, so as long as you aren't disturbing the peace or being a menace to society then they will be friendly and cordial with you. Just don't be an fvcking idiot and fall for this manosphere/red pill eastern Europe hype because it is all BS lol. They are using escorts and prostitutes because there is no infrastructure for you to game local women there and these are pretty tight knit conservative areas.
 
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The nation that was in Generalisimo Franco's clutches for MOST of The 20th Century still has a serious problem with police brutality?! Next, we'll discover that Times Up and intimacy coordinators have all been window dressing, and that the casting couch remains just as omnipresent in Hollywood as it's always been
tbh, even though I was on the receiving end, and one of my brothers who hadn't done anything wrong got his nose smashed up by one of the police officers, I kind of welcomed it lol. In the UK, there is ZERO fear of police. And certain minorities who are kind of untouchable (like travellers/gypsies) will literally bully the police! We also had a few female police officers beaten up which was big news here recently. It's just a general thing, tbh. The police are seen as a joke here but in Spain you WILL do as they say lol. I guess there should be a 'happy medium' and some country probably has it about right! Even prison is a bit of a holiday camp here which further adds to the lack of fear
 

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This is making women in Eastern Europe much more weary and guarded compared to the past years. Local guys are also becoming more protective since a lot of the refugees bring seedy behavior with them.
Well plenty of Eastern Europeans hate each other with a passion, there are "ethnic" divisions between people who all look the same anyway. Imagine a Serbian will hate a Kosovan with a red hot passion. So of course they can't handle dark skin.

Generally speaking though most Europeans are pretty chill about skin color & dating. I.e. if two different people date nobody cares. Refugees and immigration topics are more complex so you'll get a lot of opinions on that.
 

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TBH, the alternative is they end up like France and the French did
The nations of The Continent could also revise the policies which frustrate immigrants transitioning into the middle class and all points beyond
32:03-53:23

The tragedy of this current dilemma is that we have a historical precedent for rectifying it, yet most folks remain woefully ignorant of it, blindly buy into everything they hear out of professional assclowns like Carl Benjamin and the folks over at Triggernometry
 

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The nations of The Continent could also revise the policies which frustrate immigrants transitioning into the middle class and all points beyond
32:03-53:23

The tragedy of this current dilemma is that we have a historical precedent for rectifying it, yet most folks remain woefully ignorant of it, blindly buy into everything they hear out of professional assclowns like Carl Benjamin and the folks over at Triggernometry
I say just get 'em stoned.
 

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Marseille & Nantes are notoriously bad and already have had a terrible reputation well before the 2020s. No offense man, but I don't think you did your research well with this French trip and just picked cities out of convenience. I went to Normandy, Brittany, Grand Est, Paris, and the Loire Valley and experienced the exact opposite of what you experienced. Does France bad areas, yes, but I found the whole French negative stereotypes to be completely overblown.
That's kind of like saying that negative stereotypes about violence in America are overblown because you went to South Dakota, Wyoming, Idaho, Montanan and the Capitol Hill area in DC and felt perfectly safe.
 

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That's kind of like saying that negative stereotypes about violence in America are overblown because you went to South Dakota, Wyoming, Idaho, Montanan and the Capitol Hill area in DC and felt perfectly safe.
Most major US cities are perfectly safe if you aren't an fvcking idiot. I would put Marseille & Nantes in the same category as New Orleans, Nashville, Memphis, Baltimore, Detroit, St Louis, Atlanta, and etc. If you aren't practicing basic street smarts, then you can get robbed in these cities. However, if you have a normal IQ and practice street smarts then you will be fine. In Nashville, most of the popular areas are in gentrifying neighborhoods or next to bad areas, so if you venture too far off the path then you are 90% likely to be victim of a crime. Same shvt in South Africa & Latin America, stay in the safe areas and use uber and you will be fine. Don't be an idiot and walk through a slum area after drinking a few beers.
 

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Most major US cities are perfectly safe if you aren't an fvcking idiot. I would put Marseille & Nantes in the same category as New Orleans, Nashville, Memphis, Baltimore, Detroit, St Louis, Atlanta, and etc. If you aren't practicing basic street smarts, then you can get robbed in these cities. However, if you have a normal IQ and practice street smarts then you will be fine. In Nashville, most of the popular areas are in gentrifying neighborhoods or next to bad areas, so if you venture too far off the path then you are 90% likely to be victim of a crime. Same shvt in South Africa & Latin America, stay in the safe areas and use uber and you will be fine. Don't be an idiot and walk through a slum area after drinking a few beers.
The point that you are missing is that the practice of sticking to "safe areas", while normalized in the U.S., is a relatively new phenomenon in Europe. As recently as 20-30 years go, "no-go zones" virtually did not exist.
 

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The nation that was in Generalisimo Franco's clutches for MOST of The 20th Century still has a serious problem with police brutality?! Next, we'll discover that Times Up and intimacy coordinators have all been window dressing, and that the casting couch remains just as omnipresent in Hollywood as it's always been
Generalissimo Franco was in power between 1939 and 1975 and has been dead for half-a-century. These days, Spain is essentially a socialist country.
 

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The point that you are missing is that the practice of sticking to "safe areas", while normalized in the U.S., is a relatively new phenomenon in Europe. As recently as 20-30 years go, "no-go zones" virtually did not exist in Europe.
They might have not been referred to as "no-go-zones" in the American sense, but the practice of Europeans avoiding certain sections/neighborhoods for various reasons isn't new either. Every city has crime that varies, but it is up to you to practice critical thinking skills to avoid said crime. As I mentioned before, I saw someone get stabbed on a train in Poland involving two Polish citizens. Does that mean I view Poland as a dangerous country? No, because I have the cognitive ability to understand that it was an isolated incident.
 
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The thing is though that statistics do not bare it all out. While violent crime is high in some parts of the Baltics as well as certain British cities like Coventry. Some of the most dangerous cities in Europe with lots of violence are still in France, Marseille being a great example of this. A good bit of that has to do with the fact that there are refugees and migrants, usually Arabs, that go around committing a lot of the crime.

Paris itself also has a bad reputation now with the mainstream. Just a month ago, you had guys running around jabbing women with needles at a music festival, all across France actually. Once again, the same demographic doing all of this.
 

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The point that you are missing is that the practice of sticking to "safe areas", while normalized in the U.S., is a relatively new phenomenon in Europe. As recently as 20-30 years go, "no-go zones" virtually did not exist.
If you're from the US these areas are a laugh, even moreso for Latinos. In Mexico you might get your head sliced off. In Europe, they might ask if you smoke weed. Obviously there is some crime but it's not like you're in St. Louis.
 

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Marseille & Nantes are notoriously bad and already have had a terrible reputation well before the 2020s. No offense man, but I don't think you did your research well with this French trip and just picked cities out of convenience. I went to Normandy, Brittany, Grand Est, Paris, and the Loire Valley and experienced the exact opposite of what you experienced. Does France bad areas, yes, but I found the whole French negative stereotypes to be completely overblown.
So in other words you went to the really small cities and places in France. By that logic, India is not a dump because outside of the major cities you can find some quality places there haha. No man, you went to places in France that are practically small towns and are only good for their nature for the most part. The fact that a major Western European country has had its cities become uninhabitable due to the crime is baffling.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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So in other words you went to the really small cities and places in France. By that logic, India is not a dump because outside of the major cities you can find some quality places there haha. No man, you went to places in France that are practically small towns and are only good for their nature for the most part. The fact that a major Western European country has had its cities become uninhabitable due to the crime is baffling.
I go to places that are attractive for travel, not because of how many people they have. If that place happens to be a major city, then I will go there. If not, then that is fine. I did not skip Marseille or Nantes because I am scared of crime. I did not go to those places because there are much better places to visit. For example, Houston and Dallas are both among the top five metro areas in the United States by population, but I would rather visit Alaska than either of those cities. Trust me, I have been to worse places than Marseille or Nantes, so it was not crime that kept me away. I saw an Anthony Bourdain episode on Marseille, so I might go there next time I am in France. I loved everything about Paris except for the airport lol. The food was good, felt safe, everyone was friendly.
 

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I'm no math genius...
Luckily for us, proficiency with numbers here is less essential than firearms are when offering up a sacrifice to Baphomet, provided someone's brought along a newborn and the sacrificial knife:

Franco's reign began early in The 20th Century('39), and ended in '75... When only a little over 2 decades remained in The 20th Century. A hundred years is much briefer than we often realize
 

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Luckily for us, proficiency with numbers here is less essential than firearms are when offering up a sacrifice to Baphomet, provided someone's brought along a newborn and the sacrificial knife:

Franco's reign began early in The 20th Century('39), and ended in '75... When only a little over 2 decades remained in The 20th Century. A hundred years is much briefer than we often realize
I don't always lose arguments, but when I do I regale with tales of shocking gore. Stay bloody my friends.
 
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