"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Trying to start an in-person seduction group in Cincinnati, Ohio

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Hi, I live in Cincinnati and I want to find people to meet with regularly in-person to learn how to excel at meeting and seducing single women in the city. I've struggled a lot in this area of my life and I would like to meet other like-minded people so we can band together to solve our dating problems. Please reply if interested, thanks in advance
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This community isn't big enough for you to realistically run into them to run game. The one and only time I ever met somebody was when I was visiting colleges and had a connecting flight in Georgia, where I met up with LearningSlowly, whose account is either deleted or has had a name change.

A bit of a shameless plug, but if you're looking for help dialing in this area of your life, you should give this a read: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/special-promo-for-sosuave-members-1-on-1-coaching.284313/
 

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Hi, I live in Cincinnati and I want to find people to meet with regularly in-person to learn how to excel at meeting and seducing single women in the city
If I'm in Cincinnati at some point in the future, I'll try to meet up with you. Idea:

If you put together a gathering like this, it may be more satisfying to focus on self-development more broadly, not just skirt chasing or(as so much of The Manosphere has become)groaning over how f-cked up women are
 
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If I'm in Cincinnati at some point in the future, I'll try to meet up with you. Idea:

If you put together a gathering like this, it may be more satisfying to focus on self-development more broadly, not just skirt chasing or(as so much of The Manosphere has become)groaning over how f-cked up women are
thanks for the advice
 
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This community isn't big enough for you to realistically run into them to run game. The one and only time I ever met somebody was when I was visiting colleges and had a connecting flight in Georgia, where I met up with LearningSlowly, whose account is either deleted or has had a name change.

A bit of a shameless plug, but if you're looking for help dialing in this area of your life, you should give this a read: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/special-promo-for-sosuave-members-1-on-1-coaching.284313/
is that you in the profile pic
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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