Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Garbage diet and sedentary lifestyle are the first two causes that come to mind. Beyond that, I wonder if the way we raise children in modern times also plays a part. Everyone's a winner. Competition is evil. All conflict is bad. These ideas are anti-testosterone.
Yeah. See replies on X I posted. Literally no reason for men walking away has anything to do with T values.
It partly has to do with that but also environmental factors like pesticides and plastics all over the place that are highly estrogenic and have very strong estrogen binding molecules called xenoesteogens which bind far stronger than normal estrogen molecules. So not only are these all over in the environment, food and water supply, it also means males are getting these from the moment of conception thru the mother even while in the womb, and they are harder to get rid of.
What's Lisa's backstory? Is it a legit response or is she just hopping on a trend?
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She's likely still getting approached, by men older than her, who are in the market for a pleasant companion to spend their twilight years with. Fellas who aren't terribly focused on setting the sheets on fire or jet setting anymore, so much as they are having someone to hit Spagos with a few nights a week, plus lay around on the couch with Saturdays and Sundays, watching Douglas Sirk movies while reminiscing about their glory days on Wall Street
I don’t know. She doesn’t provide that on her X profile.
Well in this case I would take her response with a grain of salt until otherwise. She could be purposely patronizing.
Men, particularly men in the RP and seduction spaces, have a hard time admitting they are they are sexually speaking.
That’s correct. But it doesn’t make her statements unimportant or false. She might be a pick-me or have sons she’s concerned about (I have a son myself, and a daughter).
I get your point. I'm all about keeping your head on a swivel with those type of responses nowadays.
It's the failing New York Times, what did you expect? Honest self-reflection and accountability?
To your first point:
Quote the article:
At 54, she's mentioned that she's been married and gotten divorced. She's been a mother. We know that she had at least 1 kid. It is unknown how many kids she has and how old they are now. That would affect some of her recent experiences dating as a single mom. I think her kids now are likely 18+.
All that really means is that Rollo(who seems like a decent guy, who's intentions are righteous)'s 3 hour, jargon-heavy ruminations are a bit much for most viewers. So much so, that BB spending 40 minutes listing "signs" that The Apocalypse is upon us seems fu-king appealing, by comparison
White collar has been purging employees since 2023. Unemployment rates in the United States are already far higher than what's being reported. The labor market is weaker than most think that it is.
Inflation is already obvious. It's obvious at grocery stores, fast food restaurants, and sit down restaurants. Gas isn't at the levels you describe yet.
Similar to all those ISIS attacks on US soil, that everyone from FOX to MSNBC assured us were impending, back in the early to mid-10s... Such events are tough to notice, when they don't happen all that often
Quote that article: "The harsh reality is that far too many Americans are still struggling to make ends meet..."
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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