Harridan that had not taken relationships seriously in her youth laments when at 40, her beau revealed that he didn't want to get married

[MatureDJ]

At 40, I Still Wasn't Married. Here’s Why I’m Glad I Waited.

“I discovered that marriages I once revered had layers of complexity and hardship I had never known about.”

www.huffpost.com

 

[BaronOfHair]

Quote that article: “I FELT strong in my choice until wedding bells were replaced with storks. As friends welcomed their first and second children, my anxiety resurfaced when I was surrounded by moms-to-be and women swapping stories about pregnancy cravings. I’d sip my mimosa and find myself subtly tucking away my bare ring finger. The inevitable, well-meaning small talk —“Do you have kids?” — FELT like a gentle jab that I had done something wrong. On any other day, my decisions felt steady and certain. However, at baby showers, I always FELT a little fragile"

That's but three times out of over a dozen she uses that word. Once, again the perils of FEELING one's way through life, and not even attempting to think rationally, yields diasterous results. We can no longer-with any shred of honesty-roll our eyes and scoff "Women", when we encounter such occurrences, for the simple fact that this sh-t is now rampant in our society

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

That article is one long cope.

It wasn’t that I hadn’t been invited to the club — I was the one repeatedly declining to join.

Said the fox about the grapes.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

“Do you have kids?” — FELT like a gentle jab that I had done something wrong.

There's a reason for that.

 

[BaronOfHair]

There's a reason for that.

Yeah, she read sinister intentions into someone asking "Do you have kids yourself?"

 

[BillyPilgrim]

.

Even the Tower said "nope".

 

[tksniper]

Marriage is for having kids and raising a family. What sane guy would marry a middle aged woman who goes on the internet to write a 10,000 word treatise on feminist tropes. It seems like feminist women don't get older and wiser. They just get older and more cope.

There used to be a word in the PUA community called "chode-cope". It's when losers rationalize why they can't get laid. I'd call this article "old-cope."

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Marriage is for having kids and raising a family. What sane guy would marry a middle aged woman who goes on the internet to write a 10,000 word treatise on feminist tropes. It seems like feminist women don't get older and wiser. They just get older and more cope.

There used to be a word in the PUA community called "chode-cope". It's when losers rationalize why they can't get laid. I'd call this article "old-cope."

They're not going to get wiser because not thinking for themselves is what got them to be feminists in the first place.

 

[tksniper]

They're not going to get wiser because not thinking for themselves is what got them to be feminists in the first place.

Most women dont think for themselves. They just go with society. Man = action. Woman = reaction. Brainwash the women and you can destroy a country. There are theories that feminism came from the Soviet Union's attempt to destroy the family structure in America. It's a psy-op psychological warfare tool. I've dated Russian women and they are the complete opposite of American women. You act nice to them and they think you are a Godsend. This is because the culture in Russia is completely different. Women really are a product of their environment. They are on the same level as children.

 

[zekko]

I tell this story fairly often, but it really fascinates me:
I was talking to this random woman, and she asked me if I had any children. I said no.
And she said: "Wow, how selfish can you get?". I thought that was a really interesting response.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I tell this story fairly often, but it really fascinates me:
I was talking to this random woman, and she asked me if I had any children. I said no.
And she said: "Wow, how selfish can you get?". I thought that was a really interesting response.

"Have you seen the world lately?"

Lolz at this random woman not thinking of the kids having to cope with Clown World.

 

[zekko]

Lolz at this random woman not thinking of the kids having to cope with Clown World.

That has nothing to do with my not having kids though. I've just never felt ready to be a father, really. And to be honest, I am kind of selfish. On the other hand, my theory is most people are never ready to have kids, parenthood is just thrust upon them.

 

[Manure Spherian]

feminists

Seducers/Don Juans/PUA’s should be thankful for feminism.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Seducers/Don Juans/PUA’s should be thankful for feminism.

Lol maybe 10 years ago when Tinder was good. Not today though. Feminism destroyed assortative mating and now women are more butthurt than liberated.

 

[Bokanovsky]

She is a perfect example of women wasting their prime years (20's) on completely stupid sh!t, like moving to NYC and trying to become an actress while waiting tables to make ends meet. That is not the American dream - that is an idiot's dream.

 

[BaronOfHair]

"Wow, how selfish can you get?"

"Very. If you were to line up everyone I back stabbed in order to ascend the heights I've reached today, it's stretch from here to The Maldives"

 

[SW15]

At 40, I Still Wasn't Married. Here’s Why I’m Glad I Waited.

“I discovered that marriages I once revered had layers of complexity and hardship I had never known about.”

www.huffpost.com

She is a perfect example of women wasting their prime years (20's) on completely stupid sh!t, like moving to NYC and trying to become an actress while waiting tables to make ends meet. That is not the American dream - that is an idiot's dream.

I started a thread about this particular harridan in 2023. Credit to @MatureDJ for teaching me the meaning of the word 'harridan' years ago. The sentiment that @Bokanovsky expresses was expressed by myself and others in that 2023 thread.

That thread is below.

The Modern Middle Aged Woman: High Notch Count, Big White Collar Career, Lives for Herself

https://www.today.com/life/essay-life/wrong-relationships-future-worth-rcna67037 This is a story of a woman who is in her early 40s now. She's an early Millennial. She claimed to be 40 last year and turning 41 in February according to a post on LinkedIn today. That means she was born in...

www.sosuave.net

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I started a thread about this particular harridan in 2023. Credit to @MatureDJ for teaching me the meaning of the word 'harridan' years ago. The sentiment that @Bokanovsky expresses was expressed by myself and others in that 2023 thread.

That thread is below.

The Modern Middle Aged Woman: High Notch Count, Big White Collar Career, Lives for Herself

https://www.today.com/life/essay-life/wrong-relationships-future-worth-rcna67037 This is a story of a woman who is in her early 40s now. She's an early Millennial. She claimed to be 40 last year and turning 41 in February according to a post on LinkedIn today. That means she was born in...

www.sosuave.net

You can see the decrease in looks and increase in desperation in real time. The phony mask isn't strong enough to hide it anymore. Here is where career choice comes into play - this woman runs her own PR firm (read bullsh1t factory) which is worse than any HR job in my opinion. This woman is a professional liar.

And a redhead.

 

[SW15]

At 40, I Still Wasn't Married. Here’s Why I’m Glad I Waited.

“I discovered that marriages I once revered had layers of complexity and hardship I had never known about.”

www.huffpost.com

In this article, the she (the harridan) wrote..

The steady stream of wedding invitations arriving in my mailbox served as a constant reminder that I was a sideline observer as everyone else moved on with their lives.

This is a common experience for both unattached/marginally attached males and females in their late 20s/early 30s.

A lot of people of both sexes who are unattached/marginally attached tend to be emotionally affected by this.

She continues on....

I felt strong in my choice until wedding bells were replaced with storks. As friends welcomed their first and second children, my anxiety resurfaced when I was surrounded by moms-to-be and women swapping stories about pregnancy cravings. I’d sip my mimosa and find myself subtly tucking away my bare ring finger. The inevitable, well-meaning small talk —“Do you have kids?” — felt like a gentle jab that I had done something wrong. On any other day, my decisions felt steady and certain. However, at baby showers, I always felt a little fragile.

She had a common experience in her 30s as well.

I've detailed my process with this in the thread below.

Pregnancy Announcements Everywhere! Life When Your Blue Pill Social Circle Starts Having Babies

Yesterday, I was on my Instagram and saw a pregnancy announcement from an acquaintance's wife in my social circle. I don't particularly like her. I find it annoying to be around her the 1-2 times a year I ever randomly see her in person. Right now, there are 3 women from my local area social...

www.sosuave.net

I do not feel bad about being unmarried and childless, unlike her.

Multiple married friends have told me that they wish they stayed unmarried and childless.

She seems to be handling being an early 40s childless woman much differently than I am handling being an early 40s childless man.

 

[Smok1nAce]

I see single women in their 30s still doing the gym glute workouts.

These women will never get it.