What role do YOU play nowadays for women ? Provider, protector, performer or puppet?

[Gamisch]

Forget about love. You are either a provider, protector, performer or a puppet.

On a deeper level especially the performer and puppet are " new" in his space but yet those roles are as old as the sun and earth themselves.

I believe women look for men to fulfill one or more of those roles. Are you aware of your role, do you play accordingly and does it lead to "success" for you?

Let's discuss

 

[Travel memoir21]

Lol I would fall into the mysterious 'performer' category because apparently, they can't get enough of my intriguing Social media posts that I vent about from everyday matters, to Politics and spirituality.

 

[Mike32ct]

I full agree that women often keep different men around for different roles.

I’m mostly a friend or brother to women these days. Puppet is maybe the closest one. I’m a very good listener and capable of conversing with them on almost any topic.

Women’s laughter is often tied to attraction. So while my guy friends love my humor, those same jokes don’t land as often with my female friends. So I ruled out performer/entertainer.

 

[SW15]

I’m mostly a friend or brother to women these days.

That is giant horse crap.

I’m a very good listener and capable of conversing with them on almost any topic.

I am good at that as well. I don't do that unless she's letting me slam her pussie.

 

[Gamisch]

That is giant horse crap.



I am good at that as well. I don't do that unless she's letting me slam her pussie.

Why is it horse crap if HE knows that's his " function"? Especially if it DOES work for him?

Or do you mean that being a friend/ brother isn't the best position to take? (The latter makes sense by the way)

 

[Gamisch]

That is giant horse crap.



I am good at that as well. I don't do that unless she's letting me slam her pussie.

And what do you think about the puppet and performer roles? Imo those are rarely talked about in these spaces.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I don't play any role. I am who I am, they can either choose to be with me or choose not to and I don't care either way.

I know where I want to go, if they want to come along for the ride they can as long as they don't become a hinderance to me.

If they are supportive that's even better...

My current girlfriend has been ride or die since Day one almost and it's extremely hard to find that these days.

 

[Mike32ct]

Why is it horse crap if HE knows that's his " function"? Especially if it DOES work for him?

Or do you mean that being a friend/ brother isn't the best position to take? (The latter makes sense by the way)

Yeah it’s my current situation. It’s not ideal, but it works at the moment. I don’t mind being friends with women, and I don’t hit on the ones that I know see me that way. The introvert in me enjoys one on one conversations.

Breaking the long dry spell with somebody new (ie with a clean slate) outside that circle is the challenge right now lol.

I totally understand SW’s point though.

Anyway, I don’t SEEK to play a role. Just being honest about my current perceived role.

 

[BadBoy89]

Anything less than a lover and a woman is using the man.

Next time you are with a woman, ask yourself “Would. a King be like this with her?” If not, change your behavior.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Protector. She’s a girly girl.

 

[justaroundthecorner]

Forget about love. You are either a provider, protector, performer or a puppet.

On a deeper level especially the performer and puppet are " new" in his space but yet those roles are as old as the sun and earth themselves.

I believe women look for men to fulfill one or more of those roles. Are you aware of your role, do you play accordingly and does it lead to "success" for you?

Let's discuss

Mostly protector and to some extent provider, as husband and father.

 

[SW15]

And what do you think about the puppet and performer roles? Imo those are rarely talked about in these spaces.

Is performer a sexual performer?

 

[Gamisch]

Is performer a sexual performer?

That's a good one and I actually do think you are right.

I geuss the performer is the artist, the rockstar, in he eyes, the type of man who "gets her to do things outside of her box".

The puppet might be the safety blanket, the friend who is there for her . Obviously all forms contain some form of mutual attraction.

 

[BeExcellent]

Hmmm. In this context my husband would be a performer and protector.

 

[Redwood]

As of right now, none.

 

[BaronOfHair]

F-ck Buddy Extraordinaire

 

[MatureDJ]

Anything less than a lover and a woman is using the man.

Next time you are with a woman, ask yourself “Would. a King be like this with her?” If not, change your behavior.

It's OVER for PeasantCels.