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My old lady has used AI to help her with work, and i've read about students using it to write papers, but it didn’t really hit me until i saw it on sosuave.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
10 000 BC we had a revolution, people went from hunter gatherers to sedetary lives and started civilizations and one god religions.I reckon i've become the old guy, refusing to accept new technology
I've read half-way through several posts on sosuave before it hit me. And i only noticed because i've seen the generic output before.Web forums like sosuave will soon go extinct, as bots become indistinguishable from actual humans. The purpose of the bots is to spam, and eventually that will be 100% of the forum content, similar to the rest of the Internet.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
People learning to cooperate and live together made us smarter.10 000 BC we had a revolution, people went from hunter gatherers to sedetary lives and started civilizations and one god religions.
Last century we had industrial revolution that changed our lives forever.
Then in 90s we had computer revolution.
In 2010's we had personal smart phone revolution.
This now is a big one, as big as what we had 10 000 BC. Ai revolution. Just think of it as a thing that makes you smarter, much smarter.
Reddit monopolized the forum market, money took over, money shows you who people are.I like reddit, but a lot of the mods are corrupt and take bribes from vendors to promote their product and bully the competition off the site. When you see everyone in a discussion seeming to agree that one brand is best, it's all been set up that way.
Apparently Reddit is full of Russian bots :/Web forums like sosuave will soon go extinct, as bots become indistinguishable from actual humans. The purpose of the bots is to spam, and eventually that will be 100% of the forum content, similar to the rest of the Internet.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Lol yeahApparently Reddit is full of Russian bots :/
Can you show an example of where you saw it on SS?I've read half-way through several posts on sosuave before it hit me. And i only noticed because i've seen the generic output before.
You're right. Reddit is a good place to find niche communities, but if you look at the site in the macro, it's mostly bots generating content to increase views.
I knew it was a thing
But seeing it here really bothered me
I wouldn't be serving any good, brother.Can you show an example of where you saw it on SS?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Why do you think I made it?All your posts are belong to us.
The AI posts are obviousCan you show an example of where you saw it on SS?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.