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My old lady has used AI to help her with work, and i've read about students using it to write papers, but it didn’t really hit me until i saw it on sosuave.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
10 000 BC we had a revolution, people went from hunter gatherers to sedetary lives and started civilizations and one god religions.I reckon i've become the old guy, refusing to accept new technology
I've read half-way through several posts on sosuave before it hit me. And i only noticed because i've seen the generic output before.Web forums like sosuave will soon go extinct, as bots become indistinguishable from actual humans. The purpose of the bots is to spam, and eventually that will be 100% of the forum content, similar to the rest of the Internet.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
People learning to cooperate and live together made us smarter.10 000 BC we had a revolution, people went from hunter gatherers to sedetary lives and started civilizations and one god religions.
Last century we had industrial revolution that changed our lives forever.
Then in 90s we had computer revolution.
In 2010's we had personal smart phone revolution.
This now is a big one, as big as what we had 10 000 BC. Ai revolution. Just think of it as a thing that makes you smarter, much smarter.
Reddit monopolized the forum market, money took over, money shows you who people are.I like reddit, but a lot of the mods are corrupt and take bribes from vendors to promote their product and bully the competition off the site. When you see everyone in a discussion seeming to agree that one brand is best, it's all been set up that way.
Apparently Reddit is full of Russian bots :/Web forums like sosuave will soon go extinct, as bots become indistinguishable from actual humans. The purpose of the bots is to spam, and eventually that will be 100% of the forum content, similar to the rest of the Internet.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Lol yeahApparently Reddit is full of Russian bots :/
Can you show an example of where you saw it on SS?I've read half-way through several posts on sosuave before it hit me. And i only noticed because i've seen the generic output before.
You're right. Reddit is a good place to find niche communities, but if you look at the site in the macro, it's mostly bots generating content to increase views.
I knew it was a thing
But seeing it here really bothered me
I wouldn't be serving any good, brother.Can you show an example of where you saw it on SS?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Why do you think I made it?All your posts are belong to us.
The AI posts are obviousCan you show an example of where you saw it on SS?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.