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My old lady has used AI to help her with work, and i've read about students using it to write papers, but it didn’t really hit me until i saw it on sosuave.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
10 000 BC we had a revolution, people went from hunter gatherers to sedetary lives and started civilizations and one god religions.I reckon i've become the old guy, refusing to accept new technology
I've read half-way through several posts on sosuave before it hit me. And i only noticed because i've seen the generic output before.Web forums like sosuave will soon go extinct, as bots become indistinguishable from actual humans. The purpose of the bots is to spam, and eventually that will be 100% of the forum content, similar to the rest of the Internet.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
People learning to cooperate and live together made us smarter.10 000 BC we had a revolution, people went from hunter gatherers to sedetary lives and started civilizations and one god religions.
Last century we had industrial revolution that changed our lives forever.
Then in 90s we had computer revolution.
In 2010's we had personal smart phone revolution.
This now is a big one, as big as what we had 10 000 BC. Ai revolution. Just think of it as a thing that makes you smarter, much smarter.
Reddit monopolized the forum market, money took over, money shows you who people are.I like reddit, but a lot of the mods are corrupt and take bribes from vendors to promote their product and bully the competition off the site. When you see everyone in a discussion seeming to agree that one brand is best, it's all been set up that way.
Apparently Reddit is full of Russian bots :/Web forums like sosuave will soon go extinct, as bots become indistinguishable from actual humans. The purpose of the bots is to spam, and eventually that will be 100% of the forum content, similar to the rest of the Internet.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Lol yeahApparently Reddit is full of Russian bots :/
Can you show an example of where you saw it on SS?I've read half-way through several posts on sosuave before it hit me. And i only noticed because i've seen the generic output before.
You're right. Reddit is a good place to find niche communities, but if you look at the site in the macro, it's mostly bots generating content to increase views.
I knew it was a thing
But seeing it here really bothered me
I wouldn't be serving any good, brother.Can you show an example of where you saw it on SS?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Why do you think I made it?All your posts are belong to us.
The AI posts are obviousCan you show an example of where you saw it on SS?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.