Your DayGame Stack - Products / Trial-and-error or Combo of Both ?

[Daygame777]

Did you build your own daygame stack or a mix of DIY and products ?
Did you boil it all down to a cheatsheet ?


Nick Krauser..is he the first stop PUA in 2025 with his huge £80/$100 Daygame book ?

I need to expand beyond dating apps due to it being too low volume after 1-year (12 dates as I mentioned in another thread) ,I don't drink, and don't want to hit bar clubs scene anymore again...as I fall into chronic low level drinking beyond going into those scenes..having a non-booze drink only works a short time in those places.


I basically live in a good area in my city with a ton of chicks locally, am free from being stuck in a 9-5 location every day, high density area tons of coffee shops etc got my own nice place on the back road from the busy part and stuck in my head about approaching...the old dutch courage got me right through that back in the day. But no more of that boozing.

 

[filerfiler]

You are too much in your head. Get out of books and go and practice. Grind it.

 

[SW15]

Did you build your own daygame stack or a mix of DIY and products ?
Did you boil it all down to a cheatsheet ?

When I first got into daygame in the early 2010s, I read Roosh's "Day Bang" (published in 2011, now out of print). I found "Day Bang" helpful in starting out in daygame but also did consider other sources.

Nick Krauser..is he the first stop PUA in 2025 with his huge £80/$100 Daygame book ?

Krauser's "Daygame Mastery" would be a good resource now that "Day Bang" is out of print. Krauser was part of a group of pickup artists in London who created the London Daygame Method. These London PUAs were trying to apply "Mystery Method" to daygame. In the book "Mystery Method", Mystery says that his method is applicable in non-bar settings but he never goes into detail on how it is possible. The London PUAs like Krauser, Torero, and a few others took that line from his book and went into detail, creating the London Daygame Method.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You go out and do it...not practice some canned nonsense.

 

[Daygame777]

You are too much in your head. Get out of books and go and practice. Grind it.

That I am and I know it.

 

[Oatmeal31]

Did you build your own daygame stack or a mix of DIY and products ?
Did you boil it all down to a cheatsheet ?


Nick Krauser..is he the first stop PUA in 2025 with his huge £80/$100 Daygame book ?

I need to expand beyond dating apps due to it being too low volume after 1-year (12 dates as I mentioned in another thread) ,I don't drink, and don't want to hit bar clubs scene anymore again...as I fall into chronic low level drinking beyond going into those scenes..having a non-booze drink only works a short time in those places.


I basically live in a good area in my city with a ton of chicks locally, am free from being stuck in a 9-5 location every day, high density area tons of coffee shops etc got my own nice place on the back road from the busy part and stuck in my head about approaching...the old dutch courage got me right through that back in the day. But no more of that boozing.

I go out and practice. It's mostly trial and error. When I hit a plateau, I watch youtube videos from reputable guys that aren't full of **** and that actually get results for guidance. I try their advice if it suits my personality and see if it gets me results

 

[Daygame777]

I go out and practice. It's mostly trial and error. When I hit a plateau, I watch youtube videos from reputable guys that aren't full of **** and that actually get results for guidance. I try their advice if it suits my personality and see if it gets me results

OK, see you are new on here also..am assuming you are 31 from your handle and are you in USA or don't want to say.

Is there any key method you are using ? as I just think why reinvent the wheel, if there is some stack in a cliffnotes pdf out there...It's like saying "Go fly a plane" with no instruction manual ever read.....stuff like Paul Janka Attraction Formula etc supposed to be good..older but complete tried-and-tested formulas that are not so much 'canned lines' but principles that tend to work/get results..flip the switch.

 

[Oatmeal31]

OK, see you are new on here also..am assuming you are 31 from your handle and are you in USA or don't want to say.

Is there any key method you are using ? as I just think why reinvent the wheel, if there is some stack in a cliffnotes pdf out there...It's like saying "Go fly a plane" with no instruction manual ever read.....stuff like Paul Janka Attraction Formula etc supposed to be good..older but complete tried-and-tested formulas that are not so much 'canned lines' but principles that tend to work/get results..flip the switch.

I'm not 31.

 

[Daygame777]

I'm not 31.

Thank you for clarifying.

 

[Oatmeal31]

Thank you for clarifying.

I don't like giving advice because I'm still learning too but it's just been a matter of trial and error for the most part. Most of my approaches consisted of opening with a compliment and attempting to build rapport(not very well) from there. I would go blank

Now I start a bit more indirect (something with the environment, or I just tell them they caught my eye) to bring their guard down and then turn more direct. When I was able to do that and had backburner questions, in case it was hard to improvise, that led to conversation then my results blew up.

My interactions went from being much shorter and cookie cutter from trying to close for the number too fast, to longer, enjoyable interactions that got me way more numbers. It's all about building rapport. She could find you attractive but most times that's not enough seal the deal.

Watching videos from Playing with Fire and Natural Lifestyles helped me improve. So that's why I say that I seek advice when I hit a plateau, rather than slowing the process by going out and painstakingly learning from failure alone

That's what works for me. Just my 2 cents, that's all