That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Lol.....I'm guessing you're a J-Lo Fan....or Penelope Cruz or some stuff like that...I think they are so hot !!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
They also start doing stuff at obscenely young ages.In the USA, Latinas on average are younger than White women.
Nah not necessarily true. Some (Latina) milfs are just hot AF. I like women that have small imperfections.How to say I have a lack of options without saying I have a lack of options.
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Nah not necessarily true. Some (Latina) milfs are just hot AF. I like women that have small imperfections.
That's also my preference with White women too.Only with Latinas? So you don't care if other race have kids or older than 30?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
When I was in junior high school in the early to mid 90's, there were white girls who sucked and f--ked the scum of the earth, in some cases men 20 years and older, at twelve and thirteen years old.You think other women than latinas today in high school don't do stuff as well?
Casual sex with women with kids is somewhat challenging too. There's a mismatch in lifestyle between a childless man and a woman with children under 18 (especially 10 and under). Scheduling can be difficult. It's more difficult for me to find commonality with women with children.I understand your reference, but let me ask you this. You won't even date just to fvck and have fun with 30+ or women with kids? lets say you approach two hot women but they respectively have kids and/or older than 30, you won't give them the time of day or even for going out and have fun?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.