"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've heard rumors, that men are being scooped up off the streets and being thrown on the front lines.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've rod a bus with some people, they said loud and clear while talking on the phone, they are going all the way to Kursk. Guess what happened a bit over a week later? I've seen some pictures on some channel, whole bunch of them, finally arrived in Kursk.
 

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If anyone is in Kyiv and would like to do some Daygame let me know. I'm 29, American, and I live here. My game is 4/10 but improving
Hello,
I was in Lviv last year in March. I don't believe it is possible to hook up unless you know the language, Ukrainian or Russian.

Note, even the hookers didn't speak English. Diversity does exist in Ukraine. I came across Asian guy dating Ukrainian girl, he was a unicorn on a date in a restaurant. 99.99 percent white.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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He was last seen online same day he posted OP. Chances of him being with us are pretty low.
I have been watching videos of the Ukrainian and Russian war, especially the trenches, the front lines, and the drones. **** is crazy.
 

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thru security camera? or like soul collector. Can you look at the film?
Through the drone cameras. There some with body cams and the Ukraniand go into a Russian trench and eliminate everything on site. There are some of some Russians doing the smart thing in an open field. It looks like Call Of Duty. I will PM you.
 

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Through the drone cameras. There some with body cams and the Ukraniand go into a Russian trench and eliminate everything on site. There are some of some Russians doing the smart thing in an open field. It looks like Call Of Duty. I will PM you.
Numbers looked life fifty thousand russians
10000 or tenthousan on a resort cruise
hmm.
 

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If anyone is in Kyiv and would like to do some Daygame let me know. I'm 29, American, and I live here. My game is 4/10 but improving
How are you daygaming when there's a war going on there?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hmm, well i am currently living in the west bank, after living in Kashmir (Pakistan side), but perhaps I will move to Kyiv next. We can link up and move to North Korea together for some day game at the DMZ next if you are up for it.
 

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This daygame thing in Ukraine is practically impossible. As I said, most women don't speak English. Russian and Ukranian are the spoken languages. I am not sure about improving anything 4 to 10. English was spoken at the hotel where I was, and some random Ukrainian that works where tourist visit, and another girl I met panhandling.The rest of the people speak Ukrainian. Also,females are forbidden from living the country. So, unless you plan to live or live there already with them, and know the language there is no other way. I met girls on the flixbus, on my way in and out of Ukraine. Usually, the older the female, the greater the chances that she can communicate in English. Old female, 30+ = children, 1,2,3 maybe even more.
I think you are just trying to get males to fall in love and serve in the military, using girls as bait.
BTW, from my standing point of view, I never bring males into anything related to women and dating. There are guys and even friends out there willing to jinx anything and take your plate away.
 

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Political thread.

Should be closed immediately and OP should be given a strict warning and / or a 30 ban for not following Sosuave rules,
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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