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Language learning apps are a goldmine

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There is an app called Tandem that I have had alot of success with. I put a lot of my co workers on to this app and they are very happy with it.

I think the future of dating apps is international language learning apps. I have met a couple of girls in real life off the app. If you are willing to travel internationally, this is how you meet girls.

Even if you dont want to meet and date its awesome for learning a new language. Most of the girls are very open to video chat and practice language with you.

The same rules apply. You still have to be good looking, have good pics etc. But these girls are actually fun and actually want to talk. They are much hotter than the trash on Tinder, Bumble etc.
 

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There is an app called Tandem that I have had alot of success with. I put a lot of my co workers on to this app and they are very happy with it.

I think the future of dating apps is international language learning apps. I have met a couple of girls in real life off the app. If you are willing to travel internationally, this is how you meet girls.

Even if you dont want to meet and date its awesome for learning a new language. Most of the girls are very open to video chat and practice language with you.

The same rules apply. You still have to be good looking, have good pics etc. But these girls are actually fun and actually want to talk. They are much hotter than the trash on Tinder, Bumble etc.
Have not heard of this but will check it out
 

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I have just started to use Tandem and think I may subscribe for the year as its inexpensive..
The free use is good but the paid one will allow you to meet members near you also
 

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Sorry but I'm not traveling around the world in search of women.

You'll find the same issues preventing you from getting women where you are now will still be the same issues causing problems wherever you go.

Instead of looking for places with lower standards you should be working to raise your SMV and improving the things you are able to control.
 

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I have just started to use Tandem and think I may subscribe for the year as its inexpensive..
The free use is good but the paid one will allow you to meet members near you also
Hey im glad you like it. The members nearby are kinda cool but at that point it basically turns into an American dating app.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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Sorry but I'm not traveling around the world in search of women.

You'll find the same issues preventing you from getting women where you are now will still be the same issues causing problems wherever you go.

Instead of looking for places with lower standards you should be working to raise your SMV and improving the things you are able to control.
Hey man to each his own. I respect your pov. You are right to a large degree. Women are women no matter where you are.

You are however overlooking that travelling is fun. Also foreign women are alot more pleasant and interesting to me. I personally can not date American women.

I just do not find them interesting or pleasant. Let me rephrase that. I dont find the American women in my area of the USA interesting. I cant explain it. Once you go foreign ( even if it does not work out) it is difficult to date domestic.

Also what is point of dating in the USA if the family court laws dont change?
 

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I have just started to use Tandem and think I may subscribe for the year as its inexpensive..
The free use is good but the paid one will allow you to meet members near you also
Have you been getting matches and talking to decent looking foreign women?
 

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Sorry but I'm not traveling around the world in search of women.

You'll find the same issues preventing you from getting women where you are now will still be the same issues causing problems wherever you go.

Instead of looking for places with lower standards you should be working to raise your SMV and improving the things you are able to control.
The best women in North America are up the road from you in French-speaking Montreal and you post this? Buffalo women cannot be that great. C'mon now.

Got to pick and choose when you want to be sanctimonious man. The same issues, maybe, but to a materially lesser degree - which is the entire point. And in this case, not lower standards, but better women. Why limit yourself to Buffalonians? In the case of comparing Buffalo and Montreal, Buffalo is the place with the lower standards.

"I wish they all could be Buffalonian girls..." said no one ever.

Lolz are you not willing to put in the work to learn a foreign language to get better women? (j/k, we all know you're not lazy)
 
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Language apps are good for meeting women if you are first genuinely interested in learning a new language, and you aren't a complete noob, and can speak a little bit.

But if you're learning a language so that you can meet women you're an idiot.
 

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Have you been getting matches and talking to decent looking foreign women?
Yes it quickly becomes more conversations than you can carry on. Its great
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Yes it quickly becomes more conversations than you can carry on. Its great
This opened my eyes. It is just a small taste of how a girl feels on any dating app. I see why they are so picky now. They get too many convos.
 

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There is an app called Tandem that I have had alot of success with.

I have met a couple of girls in real life off the app.
When you "met a couple girls", that is "alot[sic] of success"?
 

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This opened my eyes. It is just a small taste of how a girl feels on any dating app. I see why they are so picky now. They get too many convos.
I thought the exact same thing. I am basically a hot girl on here. Women add me and guys (presumably some of them gay). I am in it mostly for language learning so it works well
 

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I thought the exact same thing. I am basically a hot girl on here. Women add me and guys (presumably some of them gay). I am in it mostly for language learning so it works well
Yeh bro those gay dudes are hilarious. Ive some some akward/ funny convos with those dudes. If they get too weird I tell them im straight. Usually I dont respond.

But yeh you passively pick up words just via conversations.
 

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Yeh bro those gay dudes are hilarious. Ive some some akward/ funny convos with those dudes. If they get too weird I tell them im straight. Usually I dont respond.

But yeh you passively pick up words just via conversations.
The one guy is teaching me a bunch of new spanish words. I mentioned having a girlfriend to him so he doesn't get too attached. A really nice guy. The only reason i think he is gay is because he sells makeup for a living haha
 

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I've used Tandem. Met some cool slavic chicks (and guys) I'm still pen pals with to this day. I could definitely see it being used for pick up in some way.
 

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Yeh bro those gay dudes are hilarious. Ive some some akward/ funny convos with those dudes. If they get too weird I tell them im straight. Usually I dont respond.

But yeh you passively pick up words just via conversations.
Thing about getting hit on by many gay guys, and that you eventually don't respond to most of them, gives you a very good perspective on how you almost never get any responses from chicks on dating apps like Tinder, if you think about it.
 

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I've used Tandem. Met some cool slavic chicks (and guys) I'm still pen pals with to this day. I could definitely see it being used for pick up in some way.
Oh yeh bro you know how it is. Its a great tool. Imagine if you were single and could travel. You can meet 10 girls on the app and fly to their city. Most of them will link up with you.

These foreign girls dont flake that much. The international market is a goldmine but many men will never understand.
 

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Thing about getting hit on by many gay guys, and that you eventually don't respond to most of them, gives you a very good perspective on how you almost never get any responses from chicks on dating apps like Tinder, if you think about it.
It really does. It also shows you that most men have no game. Men are too direct online. It really does show that women are not 100% wrong.
 

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When you "met a couple girls", that is "alot[sic] of success"?
When I say I met a couple girls thats means that all of them came to my hotel. All of them showed me around and all of them wanted to bang. All of them looked better than your average fat American girl. I choose not to have sex with most of them because I had already had gotten into a relationship with the first one ( not ideal). I did not want to cheat.

So yes if every girl you went on a date with came back to your room I consider that a success. This would never happen in the states. If I wanted to I would right now fly to each of these countries and have a 100% success rate as far as sex and a relationship.

I am not even special. Im just a regular dude. Its just that foreign girls are way more chill.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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