Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Was reminded of this thread and one other https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...the-us-it-appears.281977/page-14#post-3119877 , after stumbling acrossNothing to do with Patriotism, just facts.
Who had to save you when all of Europe surrendered in under 6 weeks in WW II? Some countries within 4 days
Yeah, individualism has gone so awry in modern day America, a sizeable portion of our nation has declared themselves either Red Pill or Intersectionalists. Both camps endlessly regurgitate their stale catechisms, never subjecting them to the same rigor and skepticism one subjects the tenets of every other religion on Earth to, and anyone in these camps who DOES dare to think independently (Be an individual, in other words)finds themselves promptly excommunicatedThe key issue here is the toxic Main Character syndrome individualistic culture the US has
Collectivism or individuality, pick one broYeah, individualism has gone so awry in modern day America, a sizeable portion of our nation has declared themselves either Red Pill or Intersectionalists. Both camps endlessly regurgitate their stale catechisms, never subjecting them to the same rigor and skepticism one subjects the tenets of every other religion on Earth to, and anyone in these camps who DOES dare to think independently (Be an individual, in other words)finds themselves promptly excommunicated
Increased collectivism is the antidote to all this insanity
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I know your role model:
Unfortunately left to your own devices you would be beating each other with stale baguettes and soggy crepes then crying for help from everyone else.America World Police looks a lot like someone who messes up someone else's kitchen to make their meal and then expects the kitchen owner to thank them for helping them clean up the mess afterward.
You know what you should check out? European history in the interbellum years about how Hitler came to power. It's not that difficult to see similar things happen in your country right now.
If nothing else, the world got a great songAmerica World Police looks a lot like someone who messes up someone else's kitchen to make their meal and then expects the kitchen owner to thank them for helping them clean up the mess afterward
There was a pivotal moment when Germany blamed jews instead of its military for the loss of WWI. Maybe the war hero (Hindenburg) who endorsed Hitler wouldn't have had as much clout if the army had been blamed. Maybe not blaming jews would have lowered the level of antisemitism in Germany. But those events were hardly fueled purely by the rhetoric of one man. Are you blaming Trump's rhetoric (which gets called out)? Or something else, like how both U.S. political parties can score points by acting tough on China?You know what you should check out? European history in the interbellum years about how Hitler came to power. It's not that difficult to see similar things happen in your country right now.
You blame the United States for damage to Europe in WWII, or am I misreading this?America World Police looks a lot like someone who messes up someone else's kitchen to make their meal and then expects the kitchen owner to thank them for helping them clean up the mess afterward.
The hilarious thing is that I am a history buff and am fascinated by it and have read tons of books, took AP world history in high school(aka a college level history course) and watched literally almost every documentary and series I could on Netflix related to history(those series are amazing BTW...highly recommend). From Alexander the Great, to the Roman Empire to the Ottomon Empire to Ghenfis Khan, English history, Germanic History, Florence and the Renaissance under the Medicis, etc...You didn't watch the Stanhope video in post #82, did you?
Who is this 'we'? Really dude, open a history book not written by an American and stop riding the coattails of your 'illustrious forebears'. If your grandpa fought in WW2, he probably wouldn't boast about it like you do, and he sure as shyte wouldn't expect the gratitude you think Americans deserve for 'saving Europe from being overrun by the Nazis'.
You clearly have no clue about actual world history and any discussion to that effect is pointless until you get some.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Seems like you are the one in need of a history lesson now.You're misreading this.
I don't want this thread to become political, but the notion that Team America World Police is 'needed' is overblown. Post-WW2 US involvement in global conflicts (acting like Team America World Police) has created more problems than it solved, especially US 'anti-Communist' activities (supplying 'rebel forces' with training and weapons) is now being used by BITG to explain the necessity of the US Military to 'keep the peace' where they were actually the ones who escalated minor conflicts into major conflicts with their hubris.
On the other hand, while I don't want to instigate that the USA was responsible for Hitler's ascent to power:
The crash of the American Stockmarket affected economies worldwide, but the Depression hit hardest in Germany and provided fertile ground for a Make Germany Great Again political movement spearheaded by a certain populist politician.
That makes more sense. Yet I think that view should be balanced with the actions of the Soviet Union post-WW2, which provides needed context for actions by the U.S. during the Cold War. In the case of Korea and Vietnam, the U.S. intervened directly to impose a cost on the growth of the Soviet Union. In my view, stopping the Soviet Union was valuable. I don't know in each case if a government would have fallen to the Soviet Union, were it not for U.S. military aid. But that again requires weighing the context of the Cold War.You're misreading this.
I don't want this thread to become political, but the notion that Team America World Police is 'needed' is overblown. Post-WW2 US involvement in global conflicts (acting like Team America World Police) has created more problems than it solved, especially US 'anti-Communist' activities (supplying 'rebel forces' with training and weapons) is now being used by BITG to explain the necessity of the US Military to 'keep the peace' where they were actually the ones who escalated minor conflicts into major conflicts with their hubris.
The allied powers required Germany pay reparations for WWI, which is the reason Germany was so deep in debt. Germany responded to that with hyperinflation to pay its debts, which was well before the U.S. stock market crash. I thought history places the blame on reparations, more than on any one of the allies (one of which was the U.S.).On the other hand, while I don't want to instigate that the USA was responsible for Hitler's ascent to power:
The crash of the American Stockmarket affected economies worldwide, but the Depression hit hardest in Germany and provided fertile ground for a Make Germany Great Again political movement spearheaded by a certain populist politician.
That is a tragedy. Wilders missed his chance to save Holland from Islamization, at the menacing hands of that 6% of The Dutch population who identify as MuslimAnd in the Netherlands, Wilders, leader of the populist PVV party, won the election but nobody wanted him to be prime minister, so he had to agree to appoint Schoof to the post of prime minister.![]()
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If you like buying cheap crap from China, then someone has to police the seas so it can get to you. The only country who can do that is the US. Global trade only exists because of the US Navy. Modern products like iPhones contain components and raw materials from something like 40-50 different countries. We're all hooked on consumerism. That's what the world police are really protecting.America World Police looks a lot like someone who messes up someone else's kitchen to make their meal and then expects the kitchen owner to thank them for helping them clean up the mess afterward.
Unfortunately, the US has too much of toxic divide politically to get them to agree on a source of national pride and how to view guns.`However, Switzerland has among the highest gun ownership rates per capita n the world and they have none of the issues that the US has with killings and fun violence. Why? Because it's a source of national pride for them and children and raised very early on to respect them and are trained on the proper use of guns.
Yeah, those of us who maintain that school shootings are overall a net benefit for society (The planet is being cleansed of both future Gender Studies grads AND True Believers in Red Pill Theolgy)are rarely given any airtime, when the subject of gun control is broachedUnfortunately, the US has too much of toxic divide politically to get them to agree on a source of national pride and how to view guns
You're ignoring the point of the OP.Yeah, those of us who maintain that school shootings are overall a net benefit for society (The planet is being cleansed of both future Gender Studies grads AND True Believers in Red Pill Theolgy)are rarely given any airtime, when the subject of gun control is broached![]()
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"Think of the children who'll be pulverized into chitterlings, unless we get assault rifles out of civilian hands!!!" is the go-to argument of every Daily Show watching gun control nut in AmericaYou're ignoring the point of the OP.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.